I have a friend who I think is a "master manipulator," however, the mental health definitions I've read for manipulation don't really seem to fit. I am researching other disorders trying to find one that fits. She will not go to a general doctor much less a psychiatrist or psychologist, and thinks that everyone else is the problem. Here is just a brief list of some of the things she does:
*She "makes up" wild accusations:
--->She said that one of her uncles molested her during her childhood, which no one believes is even possible.
--->She told her Mom that she "had a grandchild she never knew about" and claimed that she buried a child in her grandparent's back yard in 1988, (she would've been 16). We assume she means she had a miscarrage.
--->She says an ex-lover handcuffed her to a bed and raped her.
*She seems to be gratified when people fight over her:
--->She would constantly take her children and leave and move somewhere else because she knew it would upset whomever she was previously living with.
--->She is constantly "playing both ends against the middle"
--->She tells one person one thing and they console her then she goes and tells someone else the opposite almost like she wants people to argue or fight over her.
*She's been addicted to prescription drugs:
--->She has been on anxiety medicines and pain medications as well as high blood pressure meds.
*She always portray's herself as a victim:
-->Regardless of the situation she tries to be the victim and creates her own version of the truth so that it fits what she wants other's to believe even though everyone else knows the "real" truth.
*She has stolen money and items:
--->She has stolen money from people
--->She has gotten her grandmothers and uncle's checking account #'s and tried to call Western Union and wire money to herself from their accounts.
--->She took her grandmother's Discover card and booked a cruise, but the card company caught it and filed it as fraud.
--->She stole and sold her grandfather's gun to a pawn shop.
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She's 36 years old and this has been going on her entire life.
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