Persistant dream about ex-crush

Question

In high school, I had a huge crush on this guy, Bryan, for 4 years. He was all I could ever think about, but he never paid attention to me, and I never had the courage to tell him how I felt. After I graduated HS, I met my husband, and we dated for many years and got married and now I am happily married to him, and am indeed in love with him. However, the problem is, ever since I got married, I have these persistant dreams where I am chasing after my ex crush, Bryan, and begging him to have an affair with me. In all of the dreams, Bryan refuses my offers, but in the end, winds having the affair not very happily (as if I was forcing him). I dont get it. I have not seen or even thought about Bryan for many, many years, and I am happily in love with my husband, and I dont understand why I keep on having these dreams about Bryan. I am too afraid to tell my husband about these dreams, and was wondering if anyone had any advice about why Im having these dreams. Thanks

Answer 1

Something is missing in your perfect picture. You do not even know what is it and this is why you have these dream about the big, lost opportunity.

"What would happened if..........?"

If these dream still persist, try to seek a consulting. These dream could ruin your present, real life, and it is not worth it.

Have a nice dream about your husband!

Answer 2

ur thinking of what could hav been because u never got to know who bryan really was so ur just wondering its perfectly normal and u'll get over it but maybe u shouldnt tell ur husband he might get mad