Personal emotional help.?

Question

Hello everyone. I have been coming into Yahoo Answersseveral times for just that..."answers". First, I met this girl that I was crazy over. I had my first "real" kiss with her, nd felt that i was an actual developin relationship for the first in my life. Now, she hasnt spoken to me as much as she used to, nd signs are pointing to there being another guy. Next, Im receiving emails from my estranged father whom i havent reached out to speak to in 5-6 years, (mom was given full custody when i was 13 after he physically/emotionally abused me one wkknd, in what turned out to be a 2-3 mnth court debacle.) Then, the past few weeks, i have reading into diff religions, trying to "find myself" as it were.

Now im not saying anything serious here, but i was reading into Kurt Cobains death. Nd i decided to see a list of other notable ppl who comitted suicide, nd for some reason one name came up after reading that this woman killed herself on live tv! She was a journalist (my major as well :/), nd she had a long history of depression becuz a "lack of reltionships" she hadn had in her life. It reads on talking bout how she was close to her 30th b-day, nd she still hadnt found ONE solid relationship in her life. (Btw, I regret saying that when i was 13, I said THE EXACT SAME THING, the whole killing myself when i turn 30 if i hadnt been a relationship thing). After reading this, you can imagin the chills i got, i suddenly got tears nd felt scared.

My question is, given your respective religions...If you committ suicide, do you go straight to h**l? Or dou you still get judged in front of Heaven to see if you go to Heaven? Thank you for feedback.

Answer 1

I don't know really I felt suicidal for a long time but then started praying and it helped although I still suffer from mad moods and depression but at least the suicidal thoughts have gone. I just don't think its right to kill yourself though I don't think you go to h**l or heaven I think you go to purgatory, purify your soul then see if you can get into to heaven.I don't have a pessific religion but I do think there is a god but not one where he want us to not worship him, just respect him.  

Answer 2

according to some books killing your self sends you too h**l however im a catholic and i refuse to believe that god or jesus would send you to h**l for that i believe that god has a plan for everyone i believe that everyone has the chance to go to heaven and that everyone can be a good person if they want to be .  Committing suicide isnt the answer though Please dont commit suicide

Answer 3

No one has the right to judge another human being, regardless of the circumstance. God created us and in the end, it is His judgment that will matter. That being said, I do not feel we have the "right" to take our own life just as we don't have the "right' to take someone else's life.

This doesn't mean it doesn't happen, because it does every day.

God created you for a reason and your birth wasn't accidental. There is a plan for you, and sometimes you have to walk through the fog before you see the clearing up ahead.

Answer 4

I'm a Christian.  I don't think anyone, regardless of what they've done, automatically goes to h**l.  Everyone is judged by God.  I mean, if you think about it, would it be fair to send a woman to h**l just because she had a disorder?  Maybe it wasn't her fault.  I think God is more understanding than that