Personal issues and the inviible anti-people wall questions???

Question

I have been told...ok i really haven't but it remains unspoken and yet there. That I have an invisible wall around me. I want to get to know new people, i want a boyfriend, and i want to be liked, but its like because i don't like myself i have this wall. and everyone around me can see/feel it and thus stay away. Do you think this kind of vib is really is possible??? Do you ever get it from others??? And do you think there is any hope for me besides just learning to except myself???

Answer 1

You have self-esteem issues and you are self-absorbed.  As soon as you begin putting other people in your thoughts before yourself, you will find it is like a key that opens a door.  It takes time.  If you are young, this is nothing unusual.  We are all that way when we are young.