Personality problems?

Question

I have had personality problems my whole life. I am having troubles with my anxiety. I am a very shy person and I want everyone to like me and think I'm a very outgoing person but when I force it I look dumb and sound like a fool. I am also often very impulsive and ask questions that sound stupid and often annoy people. I am a cool person when I am calm and in control, and I'm not intimidated about what someone else thinks of me. is there any advice you can give me to possibly solve this problem?

Answer 1

To stay clam always think before you talk,yes sounds stupid but then you can "monitor" what you are gonna say first and not say it if it sounds annoying. remember tak eit slow and try to keep it cool even when the anxiety kicks in and makes you start "babbling"

Good Luck

Answer 2

dont force anything at all.

jsut be calm all the time.

who cares if people like you, as long as your ture to your self.

just be confident with what you've got.

if your so cool when your calm, then just be calm. and when people talk to you, be your self.

thsts all you ever need to do, be your self.