Phobia Of Letting My Ex Take Our Son On His Own..?

Question

I have a 9 month old son (my first child). His father was in our life untill about a month ago when he just decided to leave. Since he left he has not been very intrested in seeing his son and when he does decide to come and see him he sees him for an hour at the most. He never answers my calls when i try to phone to organise him to come round and when he makes days and times doesnt bother showing. The problem is he has started to want to take him out alone to his parents, but i really dont want this to happen, his parents have 2 rottweilers and smoke alot in the house and i dont like this. He has nowhere else to take him though as he lives there so i no this would be where they'd be going. (I dont get along with his parents either as they disagree with my reasons). On top of all this i am SOOO scared of letting him take him alone anyway, he is not violent but ive got a phobia of letting my son out of my sight. I keep thinking my ex will take him away from me. Please help me!!!!

Answer 1

first of all the health of your son is priority and letting him go to his parents home is endangering his health with passive smoking and if they want to see him let them come to your house and not smoke there and not bring the dogs. His father can also see him at your home and you can tell him that if he is not on time then he must make another day to visit. You should not let them dictate to you about your son as you are the only and full time carer for him

Answer 2

I think you should have chosen a father for your child more carefully: I assume they smoked & had rottweilers when you managed to get pregnant?!?

Have children in haste, repent at leisure.