Phobia of being annoying

Question

i have a fear of people thinking im annoying so far no1 says that but like if theres someone on myspace or something i wont talk to them unless they say hey first

Answer 1

OMFG!!!! i have the same thing too. i thought i was the only one. like i don't call,text or comment anyone on myspace or anything like that  because i always think i'm annoying them even though nobody has ever said i'm annoying.

Answer 2

I have this fear as well.  I never know if, when I'm trying to be funny or sociable, I'm going to far and am really just being annoying. Or if I'm trying to talk to a friend of the opposite s*x that i have feelings for and nervous, do i sound stupid and am i annoying them.  And the feeling is so frustrating! All i can say is ask.  If they are a good friend, request that they would tell you if you are being annoying in the future.  It almost always hurts to find out that you are being annoying and hearing it from a friend can be even worse but they care about you and should be willing to help...and at the same time, it lets them know that you really value their opinion of you.

Answer 3

Ah just mild paranoia, don't worry your not strange everybody in the world gets that at some point.

Answer 4

Yeah I've had that before. The solution: You have to force yourself to not think about being annoying. Think about positive things. Chances are, no one finds you annoying.

Answer 5

in this world full of nerds, I am the one with a little different kind of stuff. the same way as you feel you will annoy others, i feel my comments will make people laugh at me and may be send me some teasers or something. slightly similar though. chill it off like i do and get a puff. something very normal in this paranoid world.