Phsycology-do u enjoy kissing?is it normal that i dont?

Question

Aside from the typical "U just haven't met the right guy yet" comment,iv never got a straight answer from this.im not one thats kissed loads of guys,but wen i have,its more of a chore.i also do not get involved in relationships much,out of choice..

Answer 1

Asexual maybe, it happens.

Answer 2

It's normal. Like everything else, there are just some things we never get used to...

are you kidding me? my first and second and third kiss were disgusting...slobbering and all that saliva. it *could* also depend on the interaction with the guys in the past... could be bad or good experiences.

Answer 3

I have the SAME EXACT thing!!!!

There will be a guy I like so ill be flirting with him forever and just think about kissing him all the time.

But when he asks me out or trys to get a kiss ill be all shy.

With my past boyfriends they always try to kiss me and as they are sticking their tongue down my throat im thinking "wow, this rly sucks. I just wanted to watch this movie but he just wants to sit here l*****g my tonsils."   lol jk   but rly though.

I always feel so awkward in the middle of a kiss for some reason but my partner never feels that way.

Ive always thought it could be commitment issues or trust problems.

Ex. You dont want to get to close to them because you think they might hurt you and what not.

Idk, thats just what Ive always thought.

Whenever Im alone thinking about being with that special guy its like "yaaaa I wanna kiss him!!!"  but when im actually with him its the last thing I even want to think about.

Maybe once/if you get more involved and kiss more people then it will be more enjoyable.

Maybe the people you are kissing are just real bad kissers.

maybe....

Good luck! I hope you find that perfect kisser soon!!

=)

Answer 4

You are entitled to live your life as you choose and you have chosen that kissing, as well as more involved relationships, are not for you at this time in your life. That is all. It is not a major issue.

I think it shows you have values; that human contact should be meaningful & not casual and possibly that you have other plans for the direction of your life other than meaningless activity like this.

One day Chemistry will become a reality for you with someone. When that happens kissing, along with a whole host of other activities, will

become a major part of your life.

Until that happens I wish you happiness along the way. Best wishes. UK

Answer 5

Ok...I don't know a whole lot about you besides that you don't like kissing or relationships.  To me, this could mean one of three things.

1- You have not found Mr. Right if there is even a Mr. Right for you.

2- You might be in denial and maybe you could actually be a L*****n?  just a suggestion

3-  You are just not as highly sexed as others appear to be and this might be a healthy normal thing that is unique to you and to some other unlucky people.

Answer 6

You said "its more of a chore", which implies that you haven't wanted to kiss those people. Think of someone you fancy, in the real world or, a celebrity. Do you want to kiss them? Also how old are you? You may just not have these types of feelings yet, whereas guys tend to get them first.