Pictures of his ex on his myspace! Do i have the right to be angry?

Question

i've been together with my bf for 7 months and he has pictures of his ex on his myspace profile, and not one picture of me. he does however have a picture of me on his blog

i'm disappointed, upset and a bit angry. do you think i have the right to be?

what should i do, or what should i tell him?

Answer 1

If he's your bf, why can't you ask him? 7 months is a long time...I would definitely question it.

Answer 2

OH YES GIRL,,I KNOW YOU ARE MAD I WOULD BE SOOOOO PISSED,,BUT,,,WE ARE NOT GONNA SHOW HIM HOW MAD WE ARE,,IT WILL ONLY MESS THINGS UP,,OK SO THIS IS THE PLAN.. VERY SHORT AND SIMPLE,,,take all the pics u have posted of him and erase them off your page,then u put pics of your ex and leave them up there,,if u dont have pics of your ex or if hes not someone your man would get jealous off,,,h**l,,go to photo bucket ,find a hottie and paste him on yor myspace album,,,that should teach that b*****d a lesson,,,if that dont work,,DUMP him,you deserve someone who respects u,,,and someone who would flaunt u over his page,,not his ex,,,ok,good luck,,never get mad,be ICECOLD....

Answer 3

Does he update his Myspace account regularly?

Maybe he just hasn't thought about it.

Don't jump to jealousy. You sound a bit controlling.

Answer 4

Are they friends?  If not, I see no reason for her to be there.  As for pictures of you, does he have any to share on MySpace?  Honestly, I think that website causes more problems than it's worth.

Answer 5

if he truly loved the girl then she might be able to be in his heroes if she truly made a hard impact on his life.. i know my ex did that to me after we broke up.. and if the blog is about his love for you and not just it saying "heres my gf" then you shouldnt really need to get angry about it. but if it truly bothers you then try talking to him about it and tell him that your worried about how your relationship is going... best of luck

-johnaldmcdonald

Answer 6

you totally have the right to be mad at him. thats dumb make him fix it.

Answer 7

7 MONTHS IS A RELATIONSHIP ALREADY...SO U TELL HIM TO TAKE IT OFF AND U HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY BECAUSE IF HAS NO PICTURE OF U THEN HE SHOULDNT HAVE PICS OF ANY OTHER GIRLS!! AND U SHOULD BE ANGRY UNTIL HE TAKES IT OFF!!!

...AND IF HE LOVES U HE WILL TAKE IT OFF....IF HE DOESNT THEN THAT SHOULD TELL U SOMETHING!!!

Answer 8

Just ask him what's up. It might be that he just hasn't cleaned out his photo gallery in a while or added anything on there. I wouldn't read anything into just yet since he has added you onto his blog. Don't get angry or be nasty while you are doing this. If you get nasty, he'll assume that you don't trust him, which is death for a relationship.

Why not offer to take a few saucy pictures for him? (Clothed, though. Nude pictures have a way of being passed around without your knowledge or consent, even if you are still going out with the guy.) That way he'll have a reason to post new pictures of you on myspace.

Answer 9

INSTEAD OF GETTING SO ANGRY SO FAST, ASK HIM WHY THERE ARE NO PICTURES OF YOU OR YOU TWO TOGETHER.  dEPENDING ON WHAT HE SAYS, THEN YOU CAN GET MAD AND KICK HIS *** IF ITS NOT THE RIGHT ANSWER.

Answer 10

I think you should let him know how you feel, maybe he doesn't know it bothers you. If you've been in a relationship for 7 months, then you should have good communication.

Answer 11

Yea he should have a few pictures of you up there.  However--  I still have a picture of an ex on my facebook, and it means absolutely nothing to me, I only like the fact that I happen to look good in the picture.  If you've been together 7 months, I think it's safe to say he's over her, lots of people keep pictures of ex's around for some reason, who knows why, I wouldn't get worked up over it.  

Answer 12

Oh my god, yes! Let him know right away that it is not acceptable if i was a friend of his i would automatically assume he still had feelings for her if she's up there and you're not. It's not a very thoughtful thing to do and if he obviously wasn't thinking of you when he did. I wouldn't put up with it and maybe the issue should be brought up about him still having feelings about his ex although it does depend on weather they are still friends and if they are that's even more of a worry. Get to it!

Answer 13

Men love to show off there past trophy's..  You can get mad and upset but all it will do it mess things up..