Pisces Sun/Leo Moon/Libra Rising ~ Need dating help!?

Question

Ok so a usual night consists of me going out with some close friends, I usually have to get everyone up on the dancefloor hehe!

But one thing that really bugs me is that I've been told I'm a really good dancer but yet girls never approach me & I always find I'ts me approaching them & we get chatting or start dancing but then she moves on... maybe I'm to intense & I'm quite a flirt, which I've also been told & I'm always looking around for hot girls lol...

Just wondering does anyone else with a similar chart find this & can I please get some pointers or tips maybe.

~Thanks in advance

Answer 1

your problem is that you are a pisces trying to find girls that will be interested in you in the club!

pisces is a best match with:

taurus, cancer, capricorn, scorpio

you may be able to find a scorpio in a club, but it is rare to find any of the other signs in there on a consistent basis. the club is a social place, so it is for the air signs. it is an energetic place so it is for fire.

water signs like to be cozy and comfortable with their friends earth signs work hard and then relax and don't really want to be jumping around and dancing after a 12 hour shift of being on their feet. water signs are usually shy and earth signs are usually reserved.

so if you are in the club and the girls are not holdin interest to you, then it is no wonder! they are more than likely live wire fire and air signs who need someone who is charming not flirty, dashing and exciting. they need someone who's personality demands attention. pisces doesn't usually have this quality.

if you are in the club and want to pick up someone, then go for the girls who are in the corner or at the bar just casually talking to their friends and hanging out. not the ones who are energetic and dancing and talking to everyone and anyone. you will have more luck with keeping their interests if you go for someone who is compatible with your sign, and earth and water usually hang out and not do much of anything. they like to quietly socialize with their close knit circle of friends.

or, if you want to keep the club for the fun and then find a girl somewhere else, then you would be best to look in more quiet settings. you can pick up a hot water or earth sign at the movies, they will be with a group of girls. you can find them shopping in the malls spending money and buying clothes and jewelry, you can find them at the beach (not tanning, but actually in the water having fun), or you can find them at work. the quiet ones who take their job seriously and are not the type to demand attention.

water and earth come off as being respectful and kind hearted. so if you do come across them in the club and you are flirting, then guess what? they will be turned off if you lay it on too thick. earth likes serious people, not someone who will flirt with everyone and anyone and can't make a commitment. water will not want someone who flirts too much either as they need to feel special in a relationship and someone who will flirt off rip with just any stranger can't possibly make them feel special. so tone down the flirting and look elsewhere for women.

Answer 2

Take a good look at yourself and see what is not working and change it

That is why we all have a Rising sign it is the mask we wear until people get to know us now your Rising is Libra humm

Rising Sign is Libra, it's hard for anyone to say 'no' to you. You seem so charming and persuasive, people can't help but accommodate you! You likely look smashing even if you're just running to the market for milk. You may seem outwardly indecisive, but you're so irresistible that you'll find those around you more than happy to make up your mind for you. Keep vanity and sulkiness -- two less attractive Libran qualities.

Now your Sun sign

Pisces, people could perceive what you think of as 'just thinking' as dreamy introspection. You seem ephemeral and hazy, lost in a world of visions and intuitions. Even if you feel absolutely sure of yourself, others may step gingerly around you, afraid to break you or offend your supposed sensitivity. This Piscean fragility could get you in trouble.

So what I think

You are not wearing your mask very well so a lot of work for you to do, however your Emotional side your moon is Leo qualities, they may pick up on some negative Leo vibes -- like smugness or over-the-top vanity. Despite that perceived self-interest so work on them and find your best qualities and go with what you find deep down : )

Love & Blessings

Milly