Planning a clean bachelorette party...help?!?

Question

I am planning a bachelorette party. There will no alcohol and no strippers out of respect for the bride. I don't know all of the friends she wants to invite and I don't want to embarrass her in front of people she goes to church with. Do you think a pole dancing aerobics class is too risque? It's at a women's gym. Does anyone have any suggestions...? We also want to plan a photo scavenger hunt. Can you think of any funny pictures she should have to pose in?

Answer 1

This is so silly. She sounds like somebody that is very conservative and loves her fiancee'

Just don't try to trash it all up with "new women" lingo. Get my drift?

Answer 2

Hi There.  Thank You For The Great Question.

I would like to begin by addressing the pole dancing aerobics class.  I think that’s a great, unique idea that will be a hit.  I would imagine the odd person in any group may at first glance feel uncomfortable, but I think when everyone sees how innocent, and fun it is, you won’t have a frowning face in the bunch.

You mentioned too that you were looking for some great ideas for pictures.  Why not adding a variation to your game that you could call yoga sutra.

Basically, you can get the book Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions: The Tantric A

( http://www.sextoysshipped.com/books/kama... )

And Asanas: 608 Yoga Poses (http://www.amazon.com/Asanas-Yoga-Poses-... )

You Would Then Pick Positions at random from each book, which will make up the poses.  Then, you can assign points for kama sutra positions, and points for yoga positions.  

It would be easy to find poses from each book that would be hard to distinguish whether its kama sutra or yoga, which would add another fun element to the game (kama sutra are -5 points, yoga are +10 Points… but nobody would know if they had a losing picture, or winning).

I sure hope I’ve helped, and I really hope whatever you decide to do is a complete blast.

Thank you again for the great question.

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Answer 3

Go to a dance club.

Answer 4

I think you should ask your friend what would make her happy.  You could throw a few ideas at her and see how she responds.  I am a pole dance instructor and I will tell you that it is a lot of fun.  At first some woman may have no interest but once they see all the ladies laughing and having a good time they join in.  I do attend mass and I do love to pole dance.  What ever you decide to do have fun with it.  That's what it is all about.  Good luck!

Answer 5

If you're afraid of offending anyone, you should ask the bride first what kind of things she thinks would be fun to get an idea. Ask her what kind of people she plans on inviting and ages. Maybe ask a few of the church goers what they think would be fun. In my experience, just because they go to church doesn't mean they don't know how to let their hair down! I think the pole dancing aerobics would be fun, but I'd ask around first.  

Answer 6

Pole dancing is definitely too risque. You don't want to embarrass her or hurt her trust in you by planning something that even MIGHT embarrass her. Think of how you would feel if your friends planned something for you to do that made you feel awkward or uncomfortable. That's not how you want her to remember the party. Do something she likes....bowling, dinner out, see a show, take horse back riding lessons.....think of what her interests are and plan something fun and wholesome and memorable that everyone can participate in around that. Have a Mary Kay or Avon party and all the gals can get their makup done...check online for lots of good party games (there are plenty of clean ones out there). Good luck and kudos for being respectful of the bride's wishes.