I took my kids to busy park this evening. There were kids running around all over with no supervision...I had to tell several to not through water bottles like rockets ( half full ones), as well as to not climb back up the slide once they slide down.... To top it off there were only two toddler swings where sat two little kids with their Mom's pushing. My daughter and I waited for 3 minutes, at which time 1 mother made a feeble attempt to take out her son, when he cried she looked at me defeatedly and commenced to pushing him. The other mother made notice and "tried" to take out her daughter with the same lame display of failure when the child whined. I was floored, as each gave me this look like as if to say "would you break this poor childs heart and make me take them out of the swing, you can see how they would be scarred if I used my force to pry them from the thing they need most right now". Never mind that my daughter waited patiently for three minutes only to have her mother turn to her and say "Sorry honey, we will come back later when these women figure out how to get their kids off the swing". While I know that it would be worse to tell them what I really thought, then and there at the top of my lungs, I still feel like I should have done something more. What should I have done? I hope i didn't send the wrong message to my girl, that she should steep aside in situations like this? What do you think?
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