Please, someone tell me what this dream meant?

Question

In the dream, I start out as Rory Gilmore (from Gilmore Girls), but I had two stepsisters and, like in cinderella, I was there slave. I did everything for them.

At one point, I am putting together a party for them when in walks Jess Mariano (also from Gilmore Girls), he asks me what I'm doing and tells me I'm crazy. I blow him off, but am secretly shaken by his words.

The dream shifts a little, and now the party is going on. When suddenly a giant cliff appears in the middle of it and a spotlight is lighting up the top of it. Jess is up there, only he has wings. He looks a lot like an angel, only his wings are black.

Jess then jumps off the cliff and everyone at the party then begins to take out bows and arrows. They shoot at his wings, piercing them.

The dream shifts, and its now early morning. I free myself from my step sisters and find Jess on a park bench bleeding from the wounds in his wings. I suddenly realize I love Jess, and he loves me back. I heal his wings.

Then the dream alters, and I am no longer Rory Gilmore, I am me and Rory is my sister. I then show up, with my real life mom (she's my mom and Rory's), at the place where we all live. Rory is now dating Jess, but no longer really cares for him, whereas I am deeply in-love with him.

Mom then gets a call from my dad, who is in a far away city, he wants us to come see him. So the three of us, my mom, Rory, and me, go drive to him. When we get there, we discover my dad has a plot to kill my mom.

The dream shifts, and I'm suddenly my mom. We are now heading back home, and we decide to stop at a grocey store. While in there, I hear all these voices in my head. One's mine, and two others. I am angry, knowing that my husband still has a hold on me. I then destroy the two other souls in me (the voices), and am content.

The dream shifts again, and I am back to being myself, we are still on the way home. We then begin to pass a park (it's a real life park where I sometimes play tennis) and we notice that my tennis class is going on (odd, because I don't take classes there, I take them somewhere else, and that's what we were calling it, the place where I actually take classes, even though in real life it isn't). While we're driving by, I think I see one of my old crushes (who I still in real life have feelings for) except he's wearing REALLY thick glasses.

Mom and Rory let me join the class. When I do, my old crush seemingly vanishes. In the class there are two of my real life friends and a little girl and boy.

We then do a footwork drill. The coach is professer Trelawny (from Harry Potter). I am not able to do the beginning of the drill well at all (I'm terrible), but I'm more than a natural at doing the beginning. Trelawny is very happy with me.

The little boy however, who I realize is my old crush, but younger, critisizes me. He tells me it doesn't matter how good I am at the end, if I can't do the beginning, and that I should only work on the beginning since I'm only good at the end.

The dream shifts, and I'm back at the start of the dream, with some exceptions. This time Lorelai is my mom and I'm helping her unpack the car. Rory and Jess walk by us (Rory is still my sister) and my heart aches for Jess, who oddly reminds me of the little boy and my crush.

The dream shifts, and Rory confronts me, telling me she doesn't love Jess and that Jess loves me.

Jess and I then talk and he tells me how much he loves me. He now has a hunch in his back (wings).

The dream shifts again, and now Jess has gotten beaten up by the step family I worked for as Rory.

I then go to meet him at the same bench where I healed him as Rory. Only this time I can't save him and he dies

The dream shifts, and I am back in footwork class. This time I can do the beginning, but not the ending. The little boy compliments me, then turns into Jess and we kiss.

What did it mean?

Answer 1

Phew! This a long dream, but i'll try!....

In the dream, I start out as Rory Gilmore (from Gilmore Girls), but I had two stepsisters and, like in cinderella, I was there slave. I did everything for them.

At one point, I am putting together a party for them when in walks Jess Mariano (also from Gilmore Girls), he asks me what I'm doing and tells me I'm crazy. I blow him off, but am secretly shaken by his words.

(i'll write in all-caps, to make this easier to read, i hope, since i'm cutting 7 pasting a lot, from your question...)

RORY IN GILMORE GIRLS IS A 'GOOD GIRL'-- SELF-EFFACING, ETC... YOUR DREAM IS TELLING YOU IT'S OKAY TO HAVE WANTS AND NEEDS OF YOUR OWN, AND TO FULFILL THEM-- BASICALLY, YOUR DREAM IS TELLING YOU-- DON'T BE A CINDERELLA!-- FOLLOW YOUR OWN DRUMMER!-- IT'S GOOD TO BE INDEPENDANT, EVEN THOUGH OUR SOCIETY OFTEN DOESN'T OFTEN REWARD SELF-EMPOWERMENT IN YOUNG GIRLS... "s***w THOSE EVIL STEPSISTERS!" YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS IS SAYING-- DO WHAT YOU WANT; DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, REGARDLESS OF OTHERS DISAPPROVAL, SO LONG AS IT'S HEALTHY.

The dream shifts a little, and now the party is going on. When suddenly a giant cliff appears in the middle of it and a spotlight is lighting up the top of it. Jess is up there, only he has wings. He looks a lot like an angel, only his wings are black.

Jess then jumps off the cliff and everyone at the party then begins to take out bows and arrows. They shoot....

JESS** IN YOUR DREAM IS AN ASPECT OF YOURSELF-- HE'S THE PART OF YOU, THAT YEARNS TO BE INDEPENDANT, AND LISTEN TO YOURSELF/ FOLLOW YOUR OWN INCLINATIONS, DESPITE OPPOSITION/NEGATIVITY FROM OTHERS... HE'S AN ANGEL, BECAUSE THIS PART OF YOU IS A BLESSING, AND IF YOU HEED ITS CALL, IT WILL LEAD YOU TO HAPPINESS, AND GREATER SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT. HIS WINGS ARE BLACK, BECAUSE YOU'RE AMBIVALENT ABOUT THIS PART OF YOURSELF-- DO YOU DARE DO WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOURSELF, WHEN OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE WOULD LIKE TO 'SHOOT YOU DOWN', AND MIGHT PREFER THAT YOU TAKE THE 'CINDERELLA' ROLE, RATHER THAN EXPRESS YOUR INDIVIDUALITY AND INDEPENDANCE AS A HUMAN BEING?

LUCKILY, YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO, DEEP DOWN, YOU LOVE THE 'ANGEL/JESS' ASPECT OF YOURSELF, AND YOU HAVE ALL THE TOOLS YOU NEED, TO HEAL YOUR (PSYCHIC) WOUNDS, SPREAD YOUR WINGS, & FLY!

****ALSO: THE 'JESS' CHARACTER ON GILMORE GIRLS, IS KIND OF A 'BAD BOY', OR 'DARK HORSE'-- THIS FURTHER SYMBOLIZES YOUR AMBIVALENCE ABOUT YOUR INDEPENDANCE; TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, & ITS DIRECTION-- YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS IS SHOWING YOUR FEAR THAT TO DO SO (TO DEVELOP YOUR INDEPENDANCE) MIGHT MAKE YOU 'BAD'-- A 'BAD BOY', (AS OPPOSED TO THE NICE, SWEET, 'GOOD' LITTLE'RORY' THAT EVERYONE (WRONGLY, BUT BECAUSE IT MAKES YOU EASIER TO INFLUENCE & CONTROL) WANTS YOU TO BE.

Mom then gets a call from my dad, who is in a far away city, he wants us to come see him. So the three of us, my mom, Rory, and me, go drive to him. When we get there, we discover my dad has a plot to kill my mom.

The dream shifts, and I'm suddenly my mom. We are now heading back home, and we decide to stop at a grocey store. While in there, I hear all these voices in my head. One's mine, and two others. I am angry, knowing that my husband still has a hold on me. I then destroy the two other souls in me (the voices), and am content.

YOUR DAD MAY BE ONE OF THE PEOPLE TRYING TO HOLD YOU BACK, IN REAL LIFE, FROM FINDING YOURSELF-- HOWEVER, IN YOUR DREAM, YOU FIND THE STRENGTH TO CONQUER THE NAYSAYERS (THE INNER VOICES THAT ARE NOT YOUR OWN, IN THE DREAM-- IN YOUR REAL/WAKING LIFE, THESE ARE THE CRITICAL 'VOICES', IN YOUR OWN MIND, OR THE PEOPLE WHO TRY TO HOLD YOU BACK, WITH THEIR NEGATIVITY-- POSSIBLY YOUR FATHER & MOTHER ARE CRITICAL, OF YOUR ATTEMPTS TO GAIN INDEPENDANCE, & GROW AS A PERSON...

GROCERY STORE REPRESENTS YOUR SEARCH FOR SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT. DAD WANTING TO 'KILL' YOUR MOM IS NOT LITERAL-- MEANS HE IS HOLDING HER BACK, IN SOME WAY, FROM PURSUING HER PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT. POSSIBLY YOU, AS WELL...

I think I see one of my old crushes (who I still in real life have feelings for) except he's wearing REALLY thick glasses.

Mom and Rory let me join the class. When I do, my old crush seemingly vanishes. In the class there are two of my real life friends and a little girl and boy.

RORY + MOM/ JOINING THE 'CLASS', OR GROUP = LISTENING TO OTHER PEOPLE INSTEAD OF YOUR INTUITION... WHEN THEY APPEAR, YOUR CRUSH DISAPPEARS-- PERHAPS YOUR CRUSH IS ONE YOU ARE NOT SURE WOULD GARNER THE APPROVAL OF FRIENDS & FAMILY...

HIS THICK GLASSES IN THE DREAM, INDICATE THAT HE MAY HAVE TROUBLE SEEING YOUR TRUE SELF, IN REAL LIFE, BECAUSE YOU ARE STUCK IN THE CINDERELLA/RORY ROLE.

We then do a footwork drill. The coach is professer Trelawny... OOPS! I'M OUT OF ROOM! SHORT VERSION: REST OF DREAM SYMBOLIZES AMBIVALENCE OVER ATTRACTION TO CRUSH-- SHOULD YOU OR SHOULDN'T YOU? YOU PROBLY SHOULD, SINCE CRUSH REMINDS YOU OF INDEPENDANT 'JESS' ASPECT OF YOURSELF.