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Please,i need your advice help me?

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after three weekend I will start school but i'm scary about that because last year i didn't make a good relation ship with my school friends because we don't have the same ideas and we are completely different ,so i always stayed alone in the break for lunch,all the time and i don't want to repeat that again

any advice?

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Yeah, be yourself.

And find me. : )
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JUST BE URSELF DONT TRY AND CHANGE FOR ANYBODY. U WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO RELATES TO YOU. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT FRIENDS ANYWAY STAY FOCUSED ON SCHOOL
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Ok yes it sounds really scary. So they are probably different to you and you feel better off on your own. okay so that's what you do to defend yourself from getting humiliated,made fun of etc. So you need to move out of the comfort zone (staying on your own you need to develop skills of friendship that allows difference in. That means you stay in the discomfort of people you don't even understand!!!

so what if they have different ideas. You need them anyway. Remember this, you need people more than your own isolated view of things, so let there be differences and do not go off on your own. Be nice, humour them, compliment them and that's being a cool person. You are not better than them just different.
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Start finding people who have the same interests as you. There are people out there that also are very intelligent who know how to carry conversations well. Even try talking to the older kids. Don't exclude the possibilities. Making friends is quite easy, keeping them takes work like understanding and acceptance. Yes a new year is stressful but don't be so hard on yourself, life does get much better.
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dont be scraed of n e thing be urself and if ppl cant see that in u well they aint nice or respectfull ppl,i always backed dwn to ppl at school but u no now im older i have learnt to stand up 4 myself ans speak my opinion weteher ppl like it or not,and i wish i could of done it wen i was younger because i wouldnt of let ppl walkova me,be ur self lkie i said n dont let ppl have there opinion but if u have ur own say it n say we all have different opinions good luck
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if u can try home schooling... try to find new friends, other than ur sections... don't be too judgemental, being too bossy, or being so pushy about ur ideas... u can't just inject them ur ideas...

try to be tolerant sometimes...and patient, or u can chnge school
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This article offers some great advice on making new friends and getting over shyness:

How to Talk to Girls You Never Knew

http://www.ehow.com/how_4461182_talk-gir...

Hope it helps! Good Luck!
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