Please Answer, Bad Dreams....10 pts b/a and thumbs up for all!?

Question

Okay so the story goes, I been with my man for almost 3 years We lived together pretty much the whole time..Now we dont When I sleep by myself I have these horrible nightmares but when I sleep with him I dont have any bad dreams What could this mean? Do I feel "safe" when I sleep with him now and unsafe when I dont? Please help these dreams are very horrible ones. && Im sick of them..Thanks!

Answer 1

Well the human body does all kinds of weird things at night. It could just be coincidence but its probably just like you said. You feel more vulnerable and don't sleep as deeply when you are by you self. A lot of times whatever you were thinking about right before you go to sleep comes out in your dreams so you probably think about how you are alone and wish he was there and you end up with weird dreams about being abandoned or alone

Answer 2

you are being too anxious before you go to bed, you must try to relax! subconsciously your brain is ticking over and over because you hate not being with you're chap! try some bath oils and a nice hot cup of chocky to soothe away you're anxieties.

Answer 3

If you lived together for a long time and now you don't, it is probably your mind expressing the fear that you feel that things may not be leading where you want them to lead. Maybe deep down you are scared that the move to separate places will lead to separate lives, and your mind manifests that fear in horrible dreams.

Answer 4

this is easy..you two aint married cause he told you he wouldnt do it.  The only way for you to keep him is to be clingy.  He leaves for a few days to save himnself from ya and to cheat, and you freak out with weird dreams.  You keep having freak dreams cause you kow if he leaves again, he aint coming back...Close?

Answer 5

You obviously have gotten used to him being there and you probably did feel a certain security being with him i just think your dreams are coming from you thinking him not being there something might happen to you so when you worry about little things like that and they trigger your bad dreams!