Please Answer? Men only... not little boys!?

Question

Why do guys change after you have s*x with that person.

I waited 1 year to have s*x with my boyfriend, and he still split?

Answer 1

REAL men do not do this...

Answer 2

Well....as AnJi said no real man does this. However what you have become is a conquest...a notch in his belt...a number. Sure hope you never allowed him to give you the old "Hey...pose naked for me...let's film ourselves...type thing.

Sorry kid. By all accounts it appears you were taken advantage of for a piece of trim. however I must say most males don't wait around for a year to knock off a piece.

Answer 3

I think you hit on something with the main question, before the details.  This guy changed, and left you, after s*x, because he was a little boy, not a man.  I recommend you stop dating boys and start dating men.

Answer 4

As a rule once we tap it, we can treat it how we wants to.  I am an exception to that rule though.  I will disrespect you right from the beginning.  That's why most of the women I bang have low self esteem.  And if they don't before, they darn sure do by the time I'm finished with them.  Boo-Yah!

Answer 5

Needhelp, it is hard to answer for all the male gender.  But much like the female's on our fine earth it appears that some look at this part of live as a game and once they have reached the end the excitement is gone.  God darn strange if you ask this old guy but seems to be that way.  Christ even after marriages people just give up nowadays after their first fight rather than try to fix things. It appears that this disposable society we live in now includes relationships, feelings etc.  Hopefully soon you will find the right guy and he won't play these foolish games. But you are probably young enough to have your heart broken numerous times yet and be responsible for breaking many hearts along the path also.  Regardless have a good life and best of luck in the love department.

Answer 6

a YEAR?! when I was single I had a 3 date rule... s*x by date 3 or there is no date 4. I guess he found out that he waited a year for something that wasn't worth the wait.

Answer 7

Sounds like s*x became a challenge. He finally got what he wanted so the game was over and he moved on.

Answer 8

I doubt his leaving you had anything to do with s*x.  And not all men "change" after s*x.  I think a lot of it has to do with whether the s*x is casual or meaningful.  If you are just a one night stand to him, of course the first that will happen afterwards is he will start pulling on his pants and looking for the door.  Longer, committed relationships won't experience such a negative change after the relationship turns sexual.  In your case, without specifics, I don't know why your boyfriend left but again, I doubt it was because you let him have s*x.  

Answer 9

he was obviously only with you for one reason, and as the rest of the commenters have pointed out, he was definitely not a real man, i hope that you have the luck to find a real man who will treat you like the princess that you probably are, and trust me they are out there...dont fret, you will find the one you are supposed to be with

Answer 10

Some men do change, but not all of them, Sorry about that. That guy is an a*****e.

Answer 11

maybe you changed after you had s*x. men sometimes see s*x as only a physical act. women see it as an emotional bond.

maybe you 2 werent ready to have s*x at that stage in your relationship.

Answer 12

i am a married man i had many gf had s*x with some of them before i got married with a girl i love,,men changes after having s*x only if they likes ur body but not u as a person or if u offer urself very easyly and in a short period of time.

Answer 13

You took to long and were a let down after all the waiting and torment you put him through! All men are not like that, just the ones that wait for a year like an idiot!

Answer 14

Tough to answer that one with little detail provided.  Don't be so sure it's related to the s*x (or lack of it).

Answer 15

Guys have one goal in life.... to conquer. once they've succeeded its time to move on to the next challenge.

Answer 16

Because we are tunnel visioned men.  Once we set our eye on the target, once we hit our taget, we are completely "self" satisfied.  

Then we go on to another challenging task.  As long as we are challenged, we are being entertained.  Once the challenge is over, so are we.  

Answer 17

why you waited all this time, forget him and find another guy who deserve you.