Please Help. I Feel Very Awkward In My Home Now.

Question

The other day my mother told me to go plug her phone up while she went to the grocery store but she told me do not touch it anymore after that. She has been warning me not to touch her phone for a few weeks now. So I decided to do it anyways and unfortunatly I found some nasty looking p**n pictures of her on her phone. Im afraid of her and I dont know what to say. Please Help?

Answer 1

Stay out of grown folks business like your mother told you to do in the first place- I'd be afraid too

Answer 2

Don't worry about it, some people do that, it's normal. She's just experimenting with her body.

Answer 3

omg srry u saw that u feel awkard i found a pic of my mom bf privates on her phone i was so uhh  my advise is to block it out lol. i am serous block it out till you can't think straight u may feel better forget about it don't act supisous then she will kno what u did  

Answer 4

What are you afraid of?  That she will yell or punish you?  That depends partly on how you handle it. (If she will really hurt you, that's another story.Don't tell.)  If possible you should try to clear the air, for your own sake.  The images, your embarrassment and guilt will haunt you.  Here's an idea my daughter did that worked with us.  Write a note and leave it for her to see in private.  That way she has time to cool off before she reacts.  Maybe start with how you love and respect her and want her to respect you, too. That's why you don't want to lie.  Say you did something you aren't proud of and apologize. (My daughter even gave herself a punishment,   not too big, to show she really meant it. It made me smile. and proud of her.) But tell your mom how hard it was when she kept warning you not to touch the phone. It just made you too curious. Maybe make a joke, like about Curious George or something silly.

  Also it's normal for you to feel awkward, even angry about this. But try not to lecture or blame her. She'll be embarrassed enough. You can say you know it is her private business. Ask her to keep it that way. Let her know it would mean a lot to you if she won't leave her phone around or ask you to plug it any more.She should handle it herself, exactly because it is personal.

The pics don't make her a bad person.Lots of adults like to pretend and play private games.Good luck.

Answer 5

Dont be afraid of her. All people have different ways of expressing themselves. I would not say anything to her because it would make her feel extremely uncomfortable. I would just ignore it unless you see other signs of her doing something else wrong.  

Answer 6

When someone tells you "not to", there is usually a very good reason, especially if it's an adult. And that reason is not a show of power, for reasons of greed, etc, it is usually for your own protection.

   You may not know what "Pandora's box" is, but you just opened it. Pandora's box is a "fable" and a fable are stories try to teach a lesson to children "before" they end up doing what their told not too and end up in some sort of trouble.

    Much like Pandora box and the girl who opened it, you learned something you "wish you had not" nor could she put it back or pretend she never saw it.

    Now that it's done, you should know, there is "NO" reason to fear your mother, she is the same person today that she was last year, if there was reason to fear her, you would have seen it years ago.

     I totally understand how you would feel awkward, but those pictures mean nothing, many, many adults like, have or participate in p**n, adults have their different preferences and there is nothing wrong with it as long as it is not dangerous, the couple are of age and the acts are consentual.

      It may be hard for you to understand at this point in time because of your age, even harder is the light in which you have seen your mother but consider this a punishment for not listening and learn from it.

      You need to try forget it and it will in time fade, but only to a point.  We have all done something, in which we have found out something about our parents, that we wish we  hadn't, so your not alone. It's seem like a big deal right now, but like many of us, at some point when your much, much older, you will end up telling her what you did and believe it or not, you will both laugh about it.

Answer 7

your mom told not to touch that phone... children obey your parents lol! but true.

look ok your mom is like over the age of 18 (grown), and you must be kinda young, cause you are upset about this. did you thing mom would never do anything like that?

she had you naked, God made her that way,she takes a shower naked, ok maybe i am of key, but seriously mom likes her body, that does not make her love or care for you less does it? you do not care for mom less do you? of course not. you see her a little diferent, but it is still MOM!