Please Help I Need Advice...?

Question

OK heres what I need advice for.

My mum is really ill and needs an operation but there is none to be a donar for her because she has something wrong with her blood.

She's under alot of stress because of her illness but my brothers making it worse by always argueing with her and acting like he's the boss.He's 15( a year older then me).

My dad left when I was 6 and put my mum into £75,000 of debt (which we still haven't paid of). And Last time me and my brother saw him I was 9 and my brother said to him "I don't care if you die you mean nothing to me".

My mum keeps saying things like "I may aswell lay down and die" and I got really upset so I typed my dads name into google and it came up with a company with his name and an email adress. I emailed him and he emailed back. But when I went back onto the site where I found his email adress it was a like a g*y thing selling models, and offerings to be whipped. :S

He said that he was sorry I found out about his business the way I did and said it isn't a g*y or even L*****n thing half of our customers are straight.

I told my mum I emailed and she got really upset. But I haven't told her about the g*y website thing I just said it was something about a bank.

And my dad sent me a £100 this summer. but I felt bad so I gavve £80 to my mum.

Thoughout the 5 yrs that I haven't seen him he's just sent cards with nothing in them and no returning adress on my birthday.

PLEASE HELP ME GUYS

ANY ADVICE WOULD BE HELPFUL

Answer 1

U r old enough to take ur own decisions so u can do wt u think is right. Wt ur mum says is all b'coz of wt ur Dad did to her. Bt the times were different then & nw times hav changed, ur mum is seriouly ill so u ppl need somebody to take care of u all. & u said ur dad has been sending greetings to you which means he still loves u all & care 4 u. Once he comes back & talks to ur mum, matters will automatically get sorted coz love never dies, even ur mum must be still loving him at some corner of her heart. At present ur dad is very fit & fine & u hav 2 think seriously about ur mum, So girl go & talk to him, plead to him to come back & save ur mum. Bt don't tell ur mom about this b4 ur Dad agrees to help...

Answer 2

Just Praying... And hoping for ur best...

Answer 3

Since it seems that you are no way out, why not try to pray to God to sort out this family mess.  Don't so fast judge that there is no point in praying, you may try first.

Answer 4

Advice about what?  About taking a 100 quids from your father which you shouldn't have done or what?  What the heck is your question?

Answer 5

i would absolutly cherish my mom and tell your brother off

also start a cherity program to find a doner, possibly contact the red cross

and im sorry about your dad.possibly email him back with a angry message that makes him feel guilty about the dept

Answer 6

take the goverments help....this is the only way.....lolz ...there will be no one in tis network to help u...i bet....