Came here because I'm desperate! I cant even tell friends or even family anything because I cant count on them for anything and I'm hurting so much! cant sleep.
I've been with for over 9 years. Met him when I was 23. He's 19 years older than me we have a beautiful 6 year old daughter. He had such a funny and great personality and hadsome as well. I've always had a problem with him staying in contact with his ex girlfriend. When we met, we became good friends They dated off and on for years. They never got along much he told me, and would talk to me about how bad she was.... (everything you can name in a book that she "so called" did to him).
Well over the years on more than several occasions I would find out she would try to contact him on aol messenger, and this is "Only" because he would leave his sign in name on and suddenly her name would pop up trying to say hello to him and ask why he didnt want to talk to her. Of course I kept to myself, but it hurt me very bad. I brought it to his attention and told him I was very uncomforatble being in conact with her so he said he'd stop.
Now recently I saw he added her on myspace. I of course deleted him from mine a few weeks back because I was upset at him. I confronted him on it and he said, "She's my friend, whats wrong with that?
I think its very wrong! He had a relationship, and I know everything they used to do. He said tht if I didnt stop that we would be over, I was acting like a child. The worse part of all this I recently found out he hadnt gone to his sisters house for the weekend,he stayed at a hotel by where she lives! we just moved back from Washington and temporarily staying wt my parents home, he said there wasnt room here for him so he is renting a hotel nearby, but what tore my heart to pieces is that he went to where she lives and lied to me! he finally said he went to a reunion up there with old friends, I know he didnt!
Last thing, she asked him, can we now be friends? or "are you still in a relationship"? over in the comments section. What a horrible *****, she is. She knows that he and I have been together for 9 years. I want to contact her so bad and tell her what is she just trying to cause here but (not in a nice way). I'm so torn up, and suffering over this. What should I do? please........ could it also be that he wants to have his old friends back. The problem with that is alot them were drug addicts, moochers. I've had to put up with so much! including his family, his sister hates me, to the point where she said to me She wished "I were dead" and called my 10 year old son a f*cking b*****d. His 26 year old son, cant stand me and always treated my son rather mean and my son still loves him.
All I've ever done to these people is treated them with "Kindness and Respect" all these years. It just hurts so much to thnk there are human beings out there with so much full of anger and hate.... jesus.
*sigh*................
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