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Question

I suffer serious problems making friends( both GF and BF's). I always talk with everyone without any discrimination. But i don't find anyone here to share my feelings freely. All are found to be at the back of my enemy( Only one guy). How do i bring them closer to me or get closer to them? What should i actually do to make good friends so that we all hang out in groups unlike being like me - SOLO! please get me some ideas of what u liked with your best friend so that i will also try to practise that kinda stuff. please.

Answer 1

Be yourself because if your not your self you will feel uncomfortable throughout the whole process.

Answer 2

Be yourself!  Don't try to be someone you think will impress people. I'm guessing by your post, you're still in school.  Find a club to join at school.  Trust me, you will find friends who share your interests, who like you for who you are. Don't try too hard, it will happen when you least expect it.

Answer 3

There are 2 kinds of friends.  True friends and friends of convinience.  Don't be a person that is so desperate to have a friend you become someone's doormat.I always had a hard time making friends.I have one best friend that is great, she isn't judgemental and is always there for me.  Hang in there, and keep trying, you'll find a friend. Sometimes one is all you need.

Answer 4

WHAT DO YOU MEAN.

Answer 5

Empathy,

sympathy,

confidence,

appreciation,

sentiments and knowledge.Be extrovert and read the sentiments of your friends.Ask yourself why they should be your friend?.Are you lagging behind in term of their qualities?Is their any thing which they feel bad about you.Are you approaching them putting your feet into their shoes and think what they likes and dislikes?.Make yourself interesting by having good personality,sense of humor,listener rather than too talkative.Don't be self centered.

Answer 6

I am assuming u r a kid. When I was a kid I had similar problems. The most important thing is to stop worrying about it.

There is something called "Sociometry". You may want to look it up and learn about it. It explains how groups. particularly in young people, form and why certain people are not allowed in, at least in the way you want to be. You also don't really have "an enemy", although you may feel you do. He is just fulfilling his role in the group.

Also,stop trying to "open up" about your feelings, this will come with friendship, not before.

Answer 7

Just be yourself. Enjoy the things you like to do and those that enjoy the same will fall into sync with you. Most of the people I've made friens with have been people I just jumped in and started talking to because I enjoyed them and thought a fun conversation would be cool. Don't be insecure about it...confidence is so admirable. Just remember to be you. Never try too hard to be something you aren't. That is the best I can suggest.