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Please Help Us??? Fifth Time Posting!!

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We, my friends and I, have another friend who, we think fakes Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. We have known her for three years.She does not appear to have any obsessive counting, hand washing, checking things, or obsession with numbers, or any other common symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. She suffers from anxiety and often has to leave class because of this, though we are not sure if this is genuine. She found out about her "disorder" through watching a television programme and told us that she has since been diagnosed with a special case of OCD that only she has and thus nobody knows what to do with her.

Is it real, or is she faking it?

Also she suffers from extremely low confidence and does stupid things such as ditching us, her friends who honestly have tried everything to try to be there for her and support her, for hanging out with "cooler" people. When she's hanging around moshers, emos, rockers ect, she dresses up in expensive merch t-shirts when she mayn't even have heard the band. This is all, I feel, an attempt to look cool.

She uses past suicide attempts as a way of making her cooler and now we suspect she self-harms although she is not in any way depressed. She carries none of the symptoms and she is not that good of an actress, trust me.

In the past she may also have suffered from anorexia.

When she is in class, she claims that one or two of the girls in our class make her feel mentally and physically sick by being in their presence, and even blamed one of the girls, who is absolutely lovely, for her suicide attempts.

Your thoughts please??

We are not meddling. This girl used to be a close friend of mine and is still close with many of my friends.

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  1. You can never really know if she is faking it unless she confesses or confides in someone.

    If she is faking it, I think it would stem from a lack of attention at home, or an overwhelming desire to fit in.

    Many people will go to extremes to become noticed, or have attention put on them....and many times it's negative attention.

    (i.e. the elementary student who misbehaves or acts out. he/she more than likely is ignored at home and any attention is good for them)


  2. Hi, your question is telling me she is craving attention.

    Maybe some of the problems listed are to be found at home.

    She is displaying a vey strong need to belong, and anywhere.

    A persons' background can often give great insight into their behaviour.

    Take your concerns to your school counsellor, if she is self-harming, or mentioning suicidal tendencies, she is most definitely calling out for help.

    Don't dismiss the warning signs, please act on them.

    The school counsellor is bound by privacy rules, and will be grateful to you for bringing this to her attention, if she herself is unaware.

    Look out for her, she needs somebody.

    Kia ora from NZ.

  3. Tell the girl u are going to her parents to get her examined by a doctor and then watch her reaction.

  4. After going through your big narration, what I feel is you are too much bothered about others. We can only set our own houses in order. We should not take the responsibility of cleaning the whole world. If you want your friend to improve, boldly pinpoint her defects and its consequent repercussions. Collectively all your friends can advise her to change her attitude. Tactfully try to bring this to the notice of her parents and your teacher.

  5. Sounds like you are meddling.  If this girl is no longer a close friend, leave it alone.  You seem to presume a great deal - are you a trained mental health worker who can evaluate whether or not some one is legitmately anxious or depressed?

    If adapting behavior and dress to fit in with people one would like to be friends with is a form of mental illness, then every girl in high school in the USA has it.

    It sounds like a little "mean girl" activity going on here.  If this girl bugs you, avoid her.  It really sounds like you don't much have her best interests at heart.  It sounds more like you want others to participate in your cyber-bullying.

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