Please Help with fiance?

Question

Ok so now I need a little bit of help about my fiance. He isn't really talking to me since I told him I was pregnant. Well he talks to me when he is hungry or wants a massage and then s*x. How do we move past this? I know there is alot going on right now with us buying a house, planning a wedding and now with the new baby. He said he wanted to start a family and now that I am pregnant he is acting different. Could it be stress?

How do I get the love back? How do I get him to answer my phone calls? Does he still love me?

Please help because I am going crazy!

Answer 1

you need help now. You are asking the same question in many different ways.

The best answer will come from your boyfriend

Answer 2

oh noooo you didnt....

i hope and PRAY you are fake.  if your not, you so got knocked up on purpose. im sick to my stomach and you are twisted

god forbid

Answer 3

yeah what he said

Answer 4

Love is kicking someone in the head, just like old times...

I'm telling you, just give him a bisquit and it will be love...

Answer 5

You need to sit down and talk about this with him. Let him know how you are feeling. I'm sure he is just feeling overwhelmed right now.  That is a lot going on; all major changes.  Communication is very important if you are going to keep a healthy relationship/marriage. Good luck to you, I wish you the best...

Answer 6

Apparently reality now appeals to him a lot less than the fantasy. Figure that if he's like that now, when you're married, he'll still like being fed, massaged, and serviced, but that's about the extent of his interest.  

Answer 7

Why do you keep asking us the same question (worded just a little differently) if you are not going to take the advice given? I thought he had kicked you in the face on Friday after finding out you got pregnant, after you went off your BC behind his back! And she is still his wife even if you have seen "papers" unless you have seen the final divorce decree! Who is being more abusive to you him or her? Why are you still with someone who would hit at much less when you are pregnant? IF ANY OF THIS IS EVEN REAL! I hope you are a troll and all of this is made up like Frank at least he admits to being fake.

Answer 8

He is a guy like me. He is in shock over the baby news. It is normal. He still loves you. Trust me.  

Answer 9

Well it sounds as it is a shock to him, but then again how does he think you feel???? And now with this going on he doesnt even answer your phone calls, well he needs to step up to the plate and call you and talk to you, and spend time with you, and not be acting like a child. He wanted all of this and now he is stressed or lost, it aint all about him, dont you dare go nuts over this you tell him to step up and talk out his feelings with you that your in this together it's not just about him more so anymore. And you get him to answer your phone calls by calling and saying you call me or else what am i to think, You wanted this and your sopose to love me so now it's time to step up to the plate.. It's not you girly so dont think that not now not ever...

go with your mind not your heart, good luck to you..