Please I need dire help!?

Question

Please help me I'm 13 and for the past year (it started when i was 12) I was having rushing thoughts about being g*y, but I don't want to be g*y, I like girls, but my hormones rush and get turned on about guys, and I don't want that to happen any more I WANT TO BE STRAIGHT, how can I be completely straight???? Is it just puberty because that started when I was 12 too...?

Answer 1

I think you are simply at an age where your hormones are running wild and anything will turn you on at this point in your life. It's totally normal, hun? If you know you like girls then dont worry if you happen to see a male that you think is attractive. It doesn't mean you want to "do him"! You're a perfectly normal kid!  

Answer 2

yeah, it's just puberty because straight boys in puberty are thinking of other boys.

Answer 3

I'm going to have to disagree with the first two posts to this question. I believe that if you have sexual feelings for males.. you are likely bisexual or g*y. This is not something you need to be afraid of. You should note that it is quite common and more and more accepted each day.

If you truly do like females also (and are not just telling yourself that you do in a fruitless effort to be straight), then it is likely that you are bisexual. The worst thing you can do for yourself is to deny your feelings of attraction.

If you have been attracted to males for over a year.... it's most likely not a phase. There is no way to "become straight." I suggest you spend some time researching homosexuality so that you are not afraid of it.