Please I need to know?

Question

If you found out you were pregnant at 14 {Im not but a good friends sister is} Would you ;-

A)Keep it

B)Give it away

C)Abortion

Thankiies xx

Answer 1

Abortion shouldn't EVER be an option. Go ahead you pro-choicers, Give me a thumbs down. But in our society we put people in jail for killing others. I don't see any mothers of aborted babies in jail, do you? In other words, it's murder. If I was pregnant at that age I would be afraid but probably would keep it. It would be my parents' grand baby. No matter what they would love the baby and want to see him/her.

Answer 2

i'm pro-life.abortion is wrong.she got into the mess she needs to take care of it.would you want your life taken?

I think she should keep it.alot of teens have children,and can be good mothers.I'm 13 and I believe a teenager could be just a good mother as a grown woman.

if anything else,give it away.but just keep in mind every child she walks by,she will be thinking,that could be my baby.+& I don't think open adoptions are good.the child doesn't know who you are, why make them suffer the facts? if they want to know who their parents are,wait till there older. that's too much to put on a child.

but definately,think about keeping it.

Answer 3

It depends a lot on the situation. Only in a very ideal condition should she keep it, by which I mean, her parents are able to afford to help her, HIS parents are able to afford to help her, and they plan to get married as soon as possible and BOTH of them plan to go for good jobs. If they have a very supporting set of families, they might pull it off.

I'm not a fan of abortion. There's no religious reason behind it, and I'm not pro-life - FAR from it - it's just not something I'd like to see happen in my life. If, however, she has no other option, it is viable, especially at her age when the health risks associated with pregnancy are so greatly magnified. (She is, biologically, an adult, but so barely that she's really better off not pressing her luck, more likely than not.)

Giving the baby up for adoption is probably her best option, especially if she knows someone she could trust to give the baby up TO specifically. Entrusting the baby to the system has it's own set of problems.

Answer 4

Well, number 8 question about being 13 or 14 and being pregnant.  This is getting out of hand.  Look, theres a simple solution:  Put a quarter between your knees and hold it there.  If you don't  drop it, pretty much you wont get pregnant

Answer 5

Keep it because abortion is wrong and giving it away is bad in the future because the baby won't know it's real parents

Answer 6

I would either keep it or have an open adoption.

Answer 7

I'm 14 and pregnant and am leaning towards keeping it...

Answer 8

Keep it... you should always deal with your conseqeunces, and i couldn't live with my self if  gave away my own flesh and blood, or murdered it.

Answer 9

Open Adoption.

A couple who could properly take care of my child would have a family. Plus, my child would have everything that I could not give him at 14 years old.

ANDD, I would be able to see my baby once or twice a year, or atleast receive pictures and letters. There are many agencies where you can actually hand pick the family your child will go to. You can meet the family before your baby is born, and make the decision for youself, so you will know your baby is in good hands.

If you don't want your baby to know you at a young age, you can choose to meet them when they are older. It all works out, and the your child is not wondering who his real mother is constantly.

Answer 10

adoption and to young for s*x at 14...

Answer 11

keep it

Answer 12

Adoption, but an open one.

14-year-olds aren't ready for children when they're babies themselves.

Answer 13

B

Answer 14

Hi hunni

Ok a bit too late for recriminations etc.

Your "friend's sis" should take a pregnancy test first off, stress can stop periods.

If she is pregnant, then her parents really do need to know, as they might want to take on the child themselves, instead of adopting the baby out to strangers.

Her parents could well be granted a care order, which would enable them to care for the mother & the baby.

Way too late to preach about being too young by the sounds of things, but she needs to tell her parents, sooner rather than later.

Things are never as bad as they seem, yeah her parents may get mad for a few days, that'll be understandable, put it down to the shock.

But at the end of the day, the baby will be their Grand child & blood is blood, they might take the"  tough love " approach at first, but I doubt they'd want blood kin going to strangers.

Good Luck hunni. to you & your " friend's sis "  ( I beleive you, thousands wouldn't ) X :-)

Answer 15

A) I would keep it, if I had help and support from friends and family.

B) I would give it adoption if I had no help or support from friends and family.

C) I would never do abortion, the only way I would is if I would die during child birth.

Answer 16

a or b because I want my baby to have a good life and i dont know if i could provide that and a because i might be like back of b***h its my baby

: )