Please advice. grandmother problem..?

Question

The other day my grandmother was down at my house visiting. The visit was ok, talking, and conversations...(my mom's mother). Then my mom left the room and my grandmother starts saying things to me like, "you are a horrible child. you don't do anything, and your selfish." I was crushed and angry. I mean, she was lieing. I do a lot of chores to help out around the house, and i'm not selfish. But the stuff she said to me still crushed my heart... When she left she cupped her hands and whispered in my ear, "you should never have been born. your nothing like your grand cousins. I feel sorry for your mother."

she left... And I went up to my room crying realizing that she knows that i'm depressed and crushed my feelings... Her husband passed away this past October... shes been different since then...

I feel like my mom would be better off without me....

advice please?w

Answer 1

well iam sry about that but your mom and grandmother are only depressed but iam suprised she said that you should be mad at her though....i dont know why she said that but just forget about trust me my grandmother isnt the niceist person either hahaha..

Answer 2

o.m.g.

Here's the thing... it's miserable to be around her for that short time, however you should pity her, she has to be with herself allllllllllllll day... everyday.

Answer 3

oh dear...

i think that your grandma is just grieveing for her husband and venting all the anger on you.

you said she was never like this before, so it is probably her.

dont take it personally though because ANYONE who says something mean like that(especially to their granddaughter) is mean and bitter.

and if you were really selfish you wouldnt even feel horrible.just give ur grandma some space and dont let it get to you.

she probably didnt mean those things

and you DO deserve to be born. becasue you know what??

you are special [:

Answer 4

Firstly it may be because she is still grieving but thats a reason not an excuse. She shouldnt be taking her sadness or anything else out on you.

I think you should talk to your mother, if you find it hard to bring up the subject print off your question and show her, you shouldnt need to deal with this yourself and maybe your grandmother needs some help/counselling.

Answer 5

She sounds like a har peice of work!

She has done something good though out of all of this- she is opening up the truth in somrthing, you need to approach your mother and tell her what was said. If your mother does not open up about it, go to see your grandmother on your own, and ask her what it is about.

Answer 6

ok 1.shes an old hag and is way jeolous that ur way younger

2.who cares wat the ***** thinks

3.if ur real uncomfartbale tell ur parents and stay away frum her

Answer 7

I'm so sorry you were told such untruthful things!

You don't deserve that at all, no one does!

Don't let yourself believe things like that!

(easier said then done, i know)

but I do hope that everything is okay, and that your grandmother starts to come around again and realize that everything isn't always going to be "perfect" and that you are infact a real person too!

<3