Please advice me, looking for immediate help. I am currently going thru lot of trouble in Family relationship?

Question

I am born on Oct 21st, 1968 @ 1125 IST in Bangalore

I am told that I am in 7 1/2 yrs of Sani

I am also told that my Sani Dasha is begining tomorrow.

Please let me know what is that I need to do if I have to overcome the obstacles that I am currently undergoing.

I have not seen my children for the past three years and we are currently separated for more than 3 yrs.

Answer 1

pleare stop believing in superstition. try to focus on things in your hand

Answer 2

stop to believe that.

Answer 3

Be a`Man get practical. Check www.489a.org, www.saveindianfamily.org & get in touch with the nearest helpline youwould get more help than you expect.

Also join the yahoo group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SaveIndian...  -a group of Fathers fighting against the biasdness of the law not giving acess to their kids who are help at ransom by their mothers for their vested and selfish motives.

Save Indian Family and Save Indian Child took birth in your place of Birth.

This human right group called "SaveIndianChild" or "SIC" was born on 17th Feb 2006.

The primary purpose of these groups are to protect the Parent and child relationship which is severely damaged by the legal system not only in India but the entire world - Single Parenting System.

SaveIndianChild group is against corpal punishment of innocent children in schools and at home.

1.When the parents get legally seperated the child usually goes to the mother causing a severe suffering,sadness and loneliness for the Child as he/she grow up and miss thier father.

2.Women who get child custody influence the child to believe that their father was a drunkard and abuser.Such baseless allegations imprinted into a little child's innocient mind will convert them into future criminals.

3.To provide the father/mother of the child equal sharing rights for the custody of the child.And to keep all of them within the same City/Town/Village.

4.Provide moral support for all fathers who are seperated from their children

5.This group is also meant to protect the fundamental right of every child to unite with their Parents.

6.The child will take the father's name for his/her entire life but still is made to seperate from the father,such a kind of double standards should be stopped.

7.The father is as important as the mother in the upbringing of the child - Money cant buy the love and care for the child .

8.Issues of Child abortion by the would be mothers should be seriously dealt with.Women are killing their children in the womb for their personal interests.This should be considered as a serious murder and law should punish such People on the same grounds as a murderer.

9.Fathers are made to pay huge sum of money as child maintenance money during a marriage seperation.In turn they are made to beg for the child.

CRISP is a registred NGO fighting for child rights.

Answer 4

yes i accept that astrology is a part of life & astrology is not whole life and we have to belive the fact ...........but if we are facing troubles we have face with our mind and heart and dont belive in astrology that time..............iam also having sani...for 7 and half years but when ever a trouble comes i face it with my will and power ..........if i dont know any thing ........i ask my senior's or relatives and later do that work ...........but some times i compramise with the situation and further think what shoul i have to do... in your case meet some good lawyer who can deal the case .......according to the law also children's responsibility are given to mother and not to father..........so hence meet a good lawyer first and dont weep please ........sad things happen and go.......so be brave my dear...Remember every human being on this earth has problem and without problem there is no human being on this earth.......

Answer 5

?  No idea what you are talking about

Answer 6

Why you believe in Shani Devta, pray to God and do good deeds in life, if you still love your X wife go to her and tell her about that, unite with her & your children. Live happily, women get so hurt when husbands leave them in life. so you have haurt her, say sorry to her, and start a new life. Anyway I tell you some tips for Your Dasha problem. In the morning rise early, fill a bowl with water for birds, keep it at a topmost place, then also bow to Sun when it rises. In your house, maintain neatness, and daily after bath, light a dhoop or agarbatti and make an aarti in front of your deity (God), then take that lighted aarti slowly to all corners of the house, then keep it close your door. this way you will feel peaceful and also your house will be free from negative energies, but remember, no excessive cigarettes, no excessive wine, no drugs and no sins in life.

Answer 7

this is call sari sati of shani. this come in life of everyone. dont worry. Be cool in this period, Do chant of hanuman chalisha everday. On every sater day go to shani tample and donate Musterd oil. Donate five black thing ( umbrela, iron kadhai, dal, blanket, cloth ) in every month. flow wood cocke and salt in running water. all these will help in reducing the bad effect of shani. at times it have seen that this give a nomourus favour too... all the best everything will be okey.

Answer 8

this thing is called sade saath..u don't have to worry much about it just read the following u will be able to take a breath..saade saath begins when Shani(Saturn) enters ur sign..he will stay in that sign for 7 1/2 years and then he will move to another

many think that if u r in saade saath bad things will happen,or u will lose something or u will end up in bad luck...actually this mis conception is not true.nothing bad will happen

the effects of saade sath are

1)u will lose intrest in doing thins

2)u feel like giving up what ever u r doing (like job)

all that u can do is just relax ,even i am under saade sath right now ,nothing bad has happened.i just lost interest in studying(a little bit only)am happy...

best way to avoid ill effects due to this is to visit shani temple during saturdays...get yellu batti (that black thing)..and pray to navagraha..if possible do shani shanti..go to some poojari he will guide u...

Answer 9

How about being PROACTIVE and DOING SOMETHING about your problem? Why should other sort it out for you? There is a REASON why you have been separated and  REASON why you have not seen your kids.... This only YOU can solve, not some pundit, numerologist or astrologist... (or god for that matter) We, as human beings are accountable for the the stuff we create in our lives and it is our responsibility to sort it out on our own... Don't be lazy and expect to get the answers easily... make a EFFORT and see how suddenly your life will become easier and the present clearer...

Answer 10

dear dont be so helpless thik +tive dont do somthing in hurry that the result make u more helpless .just follow these guidelines:I)read 11 times hanuman chalisa daily after some days u remember it than u may repeat this any time when u free.II)take half glass sweet milk & go to near a peeple tree first pour a glss of water to its roots than pour milk and lit a diya and simply pray nothing keep in mind om shanti om shanti this act must be done before sun rise in morning dont see back and come to home without speak to anybody . just do it only three days .THIS WILL START FROM SUTURDAY AND THAN WRITE AGAIN WHAT U FEEL I WILL GUIDE U THAN JAI SHREE RAM.

Answer 11

Dude I would love to help but I have ZERO idea what any of this means.

Answer 12

All sada/sati is not bad.my brother went thru,that's why i know what to do.everyday read[prayer]Human-chalisha.every sat.worship humanji.don't get agnry for even good reason.be clam and easy on issue.DO NOT WASTE ANY MONEY for any kind of baba,pujari or astro,or any one like that.just pray to god and always think positive.you can find some books about sada /sati.it may helpful.but don't waste money for getting help.no one help us.they help them self.only GOD help us.have faith in god.