Please answer? 12 year old girl watching?

Question

I have a question about my sister. She is 12 years old and is turning 13 in a few months. One day I accidently went into her room without knocking and I saw her watching lesbians making out on youtube. I also found her masturbating once like that. Is she allowed to watch lesbians making out? Some of them were almost naked. What should I do? Should I tell on her?

Answer 1

You shouldn't tell on her without knowing the full story first. Just talk to her and find out about her sexuality.

Answer 2

Please dont tell on her. It is not an easy age, she properly is just experimenting. we have all done that. Tell her you are ther for her, if she wants to talk about it. But dont push her. Maybe it is just a phase she is going through, leave it for now.

Answer 3

shes at the puberty stage and wants to learn with that stuff....

dont tell on her

talk to her about it and tell her if she has any Q's to ask youh about it....

Answer 4

Honestly, I would just leave her alone about it. It's not like it's any of your business. I know, she's your sister, but still...

She's still young and exploring her body. And plus, if you told your parents on her, I'm sure she would be pretty embarrassed. But, if you think she really needs talking to, maybe you should talk to her? I'm sure it would be a little less awkward coming from her sister. :]

Answer 5

Wow umm.. if i was in your shoes i would talk to her first and see if shes into that kinda stuff or if thats just what she gets off too.. then from there discuss with your parents ya know what i mean...

Good Luck <3

Answer 6

yea you should just talk to her and tell her its not right, she is at the age when she gets very curious of things, thats how i was, its normal but tell her its not okay to be doing that.

Answer 7

it's normal i started doing that at the age of six

Answer 8

Shes probably just curious. I wouldn't worry about it to much.

Answer 9

just leave here let her do what she wants with her life and just surpport her with wat ever she does

Answer 10

i do to and i am 13 maybe thats the only way for her to get super horny

Answer 11

Well, really thats pretty.....um, awkward, it's completely up to you, but it's not really hurting anyone, and if your parents are anything like mine if they found out I was doing something like that they would probably be completely discusted, I say talk to her don't tell

Answer 12

She's just curious and exploring her sexuality. Masturbating is perfectly normal. Don't tell and leave her alone.

Answer 13

You shouldn't tell.

You should just talk to her about it. She's at that age.

Answer 14

no don`t

Answer 15

talk to her , if you tell on her then she might try to get you in trouble.

Answer 16

She is probably embarrased it is normal for a lot of girls.

Answer 17

You shouldnt tell on her. She needs someone to talk to believe it or not she is of that age when she want to know more talk to her about s*x about the difference between boys&girls.If,you tell on her that will make her not trust you and will be hard for her to open up.

Answer 18

Don't tell on her. She is probably very embarrassed. Have a talk with her, and let her know you love her no matter what her choices are.

Answer 19

She is at puberty age so this is normal.  I wouldn't tell on her, she's your sister.  Talk to her about it.

Answer 20

Don't freak out about it, she's at that age where she is going to do and watch stuff like that.  It's honestly no big deal... Wouldn't you rather be doing that then out having s*x? Exactly.  Just ask her about it.  Maybe she thinks its hot cuz she is L*****n or Bi herself.  So yea, just talk to her about it, and see what she says.

Hope I helped ^^

Answer 21

yes you should tell on her because that is the right thing to do and if you dont she is just going to watch it some more and then she is going to start doing it

Answer 22

talkt to her, shes just that age, shes curious.

Answer 23

She's curious.

She could be a L*****n, obviously, and when she's ready she'll tell your parents.

But, I would talk to her about it, p**n can mess up your computer, my brother messed up ours.

Talk to her about that, and about how she's feeling, she has to want to talk to SOMEONE about it.

just be supportive, and tell her to be more secretive.

Answer 24

talk to her about it.

you shouldn't tell on her, its natural for her to wonder.

Answer 25

she is probably just curious and it would be a very akward convosation to have with your parents. let her get over it herself and don't worry to much