Please answer me this one question....?

Question

How can I keep from getting hurt? What happens is I will start liking a guy and think that he likes me too. But I'm almost always wrong. Even though.. it seems like it's the truth. I'm not easily convinced. This has happened to me FIVE times this year. Please help me. I'm so sick of all the let downs.

Answer 1

i have the same problem! Just be yourself and be his friend. You never know there could be a guy out there wishing that you would notice him.

Answer 2

I wish there was a bullet-proof answer to this but there isn't.

The only advice I can give is to pay very close attention to what he says, how he acts, and who he is.

Remain objective. The truth is in the details.

I could have saved myself a lot of heartache if I listened to my own advice.

Answer 3

Its one of the hard parts of being female.  All the hurts till you find the right guy. And you have to leave yourself open to hurt many times.  Even starting with another guy while your still hurthing about the last guy.  A females chemistry changes when she falls for a guy and its this chemical chemistry in your brain where the hurt is coming from. Scientists sill are very much in the dark about all that happens in the brain but maybe someday you will just take a pill and POOF he's yesterdays garbage.