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Question

Say i am pregnant how would i go about telling my hubby and my mom and everyone else should i wait till sunday dinner comes around and make the dessert and add baby candy or passifiers to it or just come straight out and tell them

Answer 1

oh i think about this a lot too!

ok. obviously i would tell my husband before my mom and rest of the family, because he is my husband and would be the father of my children....

ok. so i don't know but for him i def would make a romantic dinner or something cheesey, a picnic in the park, and just have little baby things like you say... or maybe serve him coffee in a DADDY cup or something like that... that's if i can manage to not scream and run around the house with a positive pee stick in hand...

and then for everyone else... i don't know.... maybe have a get together and give the big news... or send them something cute in the mail.. a postcard with the sonogram or something... idk. i think about this a lot too.... esp. since my parents live in another state so they couldn't come out our "get together"....

but then... i often think i'd want to go to Dr's alone first.. make sure everything is REAL and GOOD in the begining before making a fuss about it even to my husband...  but i couldn't do that... he'd def want to be involved....

i'm curious to read other ppls ideas too cuz i do often daydream about how i'll break the news... =)

Answer 2

I think you should tell your Husband first...without your mother.  He helped create this baby too.  He needs to be involved first hand....and he should already know you're possibly pregnant.

Answer 3

That would be really cute, but I would tell my husband right away!  

Answer 4

I plan on wearing one of those "knocked up" shirts to my husband's parents house as well as mine.  

Answer 5

order personalized fortune cookies that say you are expecting, addition to family etc. cute and yummy.

Answer 6

Well I agree with everyone else that you should definitely tell your husband first when it's just the 2 of you. I told my husband different ways. This last time he did not know that I was taking the test. So when it came back positive I just creeped in behind him and put the test in front of him and said Congratulations DADDY!!! I don't think you have do anything extravagant for him he will remember it no matter how you tell him. As far as everyone else I think that is a wonderful idea of how you can tell them. Good luck and Congrats!

Answer 7

Maybe buy all them like a Bib saying I love daddy and my grand-mom and put it in a box and let them open it up together. Just a thought, Congrads, Mommy to be

Answer 8

I too would tell my hubby first.  Yet, I agree with Friducha, wait until you're sure everything is alright with the pregnancy to make your BIG announcement.

As for how to go about it, I like the t-shirt idea although with a twist.  I think buying the t-shirts for the grandparents-to-be would be awesome.  By the time they open it and realize what it reads it'll take them by surprise   Who expects to get that sort of news on a t-shirt.  =)  Best Wishes!!