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Question

I don't love my exs and I don't want to have s*x with them but I still think about it.Do you think that my husband would divorce me or stop trusting me if I told him this?I'm not going to act on the thoughts,I don't even like the thoughts.I don't keep in contact with my exs for this reason.We have a very honest marriage so we don't believe in holding anything back.He asked me this.WE tell each other everything but if you were him would you divorce me or lose trust in me,what would you do,that's the main question.

Answer 1

yeah just tell him how your feeling. im not a guy but i would want to know if you were having these thoughts...i think you sound like you could tell him w/ out getting him mad hed prolly want u to tell him if u guys tell each other everything...ud want him to tell you wouldnt u?. but sounds like your head is messing w/ you...like its testing you...but i hope you get it resolved

Answer 2

just leave your ex's behind and remember "i love my husband" and keep thinking that out of all your men hes the best, hes your man,  

Answer 3

Just forget about your ex. Remember that you will always love your real husband and that is how it's supposed to be.