Please can i have a break!!!?

Question

Ok so i have been ttc for about 1 year, I feel as if i have sacraficed so much in this time for so much disapointment. I live my life for my next ovulation day. I watch what i drink eat, take all the supp you can think of have had a d & c Lasa whatever it is called!!

I am 8 days past Ovulation and due my period on the 01/08/08, on Monday i had pinkish watery type blood on Tuesday and Wednesday this turned slightly brownish and i have had cramp since Wednesday. I also feel constantly wet down there, i feel tired ( but i think this is tired of thinking about this) i have itchy sore b***s ( but always had this before)

All the girls are going out tomorrow to paint the town red and i would normally drive i just feel like saying f**k this and drowning my sorrows pppllleeaaassse help my husband is sick of listening to me!!!

Answer 1

i could have probably written this myself.  I feel the exact same way, i even had a d&c.   i feel like if i could only get pregnant then everything would be fine.  but at the same time i realize that having a baby can't be the answer.  I have to realize that it may never happen or it might be a LONG time before it happens.  I decided that i just need to focus on being my fabulus - non-child self and take up the opportunity to go out and have fun whenever i can.  

when i was prego (when i miscarried) i took a test only 7 days after ovulation and it came out positive.  so, i would take a test, if it's negative - then hit the town!!

Answer 2

I say go for it!

You need to relax, I've also been trying for over a year and before I would drink or anything because I kept thinking well what if I am pregnant? I don't want to hurt the baby.. and everytime I wouldn't and a couple days later I would get af!

Just go for it, and relax.  Besides, I am no doctor, but if you happen to be preggers this month, I doubt that your on night out would jeopordize it.

Answer 3

Stress is a key factor too, you should take some time out from this crazy routine starting tomorrow and let your hair down, you need it, don't you think? You can come back with fresh determination after a couple of days of relaxment.

All the best.

PS: let someone else drive.

Answer 4

Is this what women's lives have come to, I am a woman and yes I understand some women want children but I am sure in the past women never seemed so obsessed with ovulation temperature measuring and counting days etc... things were just left to be... why must we come down to this, I know women who have become pregnant at 47 and many in their forties just by forgetting about it and living their own way.

Enjoy your life, what is meant will happen... life is so short  to feel this way... live in the moment

Answer 5

try an early pregnancy test it most likely doesnt work this early but its worth a shot about friday night i would go out and have a few the night b4 i found out i was pregnant i was hammered alot of ppl i knew went out the night b4 they found out dont put your life on hold because you might be pregnant the worst words anyone can say is lets try 4 a baby  good luck and i hope it works out for you

Answer 6

Your question is "can I get drunk"?  Sure, go for it.

Answer 7

You need to stop taking the supplements and let your body do what it does naturally. Think back to old days, how did people get pregnant, there was no supplement or anything. Your body can get pregnant on its own without any help. After your period start, count 10-14 days and aim for those days. Remember that the sperm can survive inside you for up to 5 days. But keep having s*x from the moment your period stops until the 14 days after your period had begun. Thats what I did and I just have my son. He is only 2 weeks old. Good luck.

Answer 8

I understand I just found out I was pregnant last tues(my bday lol) that weekend we had a pinic and I drunk a few drinks..not knowning I was pregnant. The best way to know is to test...u cant do anything about it if you dont know...I kept beating myself up for drinking that weekend but I didnt no I was prego for 1, b/c we have been trying for a year(h**l I take a preg test every month!!!) when I took the test this month I thought it was just a waste until I finally saw those 2 lines!!!! I had to take 2 just to be sure lol....Dont stress it will happen believe me we no!!! Have fun this weekend and enjoy yourself!! GOOD LUCK!