Please can you help.........???

Question

well...I'm 14 and i feel so alone all the time...i feel really depressed like theres no one out there that needs me i feel like i have no purpose.like my family always lies to me like my mom says she doesn't drink and one day i found achol in her room.i know a lot of people drink but i hate being lied to!and we don't have a close relationship at all.my brother smokes "and stuff" (like stuff you don't talk about) and hes 16 i just don't know what to do.i mean a lot of people have harder problems and i feel bad but right now i feel so alone like i don't deserve to live.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I think u should b brave and take heart, if other people are doing bad things, there is no reason u should feel bad about this. U should think positive and do good things , meet friends of your age , talk to them and also talk to your father, and confide in them. u should not get any bad  thoughts in your mind. u have long life ahead of you. Be positive!

Answer 3

Just talk to your friends about it and see what they think and just rely on them. Confront your mom and brother about it. Just tell your that you really want a closer realtionship and they you dont like it when she lies to you and you want to be able to trust her. But tell her with confidence and dont be scared. Also confront your brother about it and just tell him you dont like it when he smokes and stuff and that you really love him and you dont want anything to happen to him. Hope I helped. Just remeber God is always listening : )

Answer 4

Hi, at 14 you are going through a very difficult time in your life, you are changing daily emotionally physically what your mom is doing may be abnormal but it has nothing to do with you, I have a 14year old at home. I used to be so close to him when he was younger but now he needs his own privacy and so on. but there isn't a day that goes by that i don't need him. I need him to tell me that he loves me,you should try telling mom that you love her. Hopefully that breaks the ice. never ever think that you don't deserve to live YOU DO DESERVE TO LIVE. I love you

Answer 5

They do need you. like drinking make you not in a control of yourself and smoking can kill your brain cell n damage your lung, stop them. try to be with them like cook something you kno and sit and 3 of you guys eat.  btw i live with my mom,sis,lil bro, bro in law and my 7 months niece xD. We bbq sometime just for fun. xDD