Please give me advice!?

Question

okay. my friend madi is all mad at me because i dont call her. so everytime i do something with her she gives me a lecure on how i dont call her. she calls me like 3 times everyday. its really annoying because whenever we talk on the phone we have nothing to talk about. i only call people if theres a reason for it like asking them to do something. but whenever seh calls she just asks whats up and we have nothing to talk about. and now he wants me to call her everyday. im busy i have other stuff to do. i know i can call her like every once in a while but everyday!? idk whqat to do! someone give me advice please!

Answer 1

Oh Darlin your friend simply feels lonely, she has a phone that never rings and it hurts her to to feel so unimportant even though she may be she does not need to feel that way when you as her friend can allow to feel like she has a life.

True it may seem to be a little to creepy that she feels this way , however if you would just call her a couple of times a day, preferably when it would make her feel best,(when others can hear her phone ring) you would be giving her such an ego boost she may even find more friends to help fill in those lonely moments.

Be a friend, it's not all giggles, but sometime you may want her support. Good Luck

Answer 2

I think you don't like her, though you call her friend.But sincerely I  feel you should calmly explain to her you both don't have much in common,that you are busy ( you sound like a serious minded person with no time for frivolities )and don't feel two of you are on the same page.let her know she is wonderful and that you appreciate that she wants to be friends.she will feel bad, but later she will appreciate  your sincerity.tell her so she can move on.(poor her!)

Answer 3

Don't worry i only call people if i need to talk to them about something specific, it sounds like your friends a bit obsessive, does she have many other friends do you think she is a bit lonely. Next time she calls you be honest but kind with her and ask her why she's called you and try to tell her how you feel. Alternatively you could make an excuse that it's costing you a ton in phone bills!!! But I'd go with the honest option ;) good luck!