Please give me advise before I have a heart attack!!!?

Question

I am getting married in less than 3 months. My bridal party had a fall out over a bridal shower. Now 2 of my bridesmaids dropped out, one of them being my fiance's sister. Now because all of this, my fiance's family is fighting with us constantly to fix everything when we had nothing to do with it. Make a long story short, I tried reaching out to the 2 that dropped out and they will not budge.In the meantime, my stress is so high, that Zanax is not working. I can not sleep, food is not even good, I have severe chest pains, and my hair is starting to fall out. Headaches are everyday and I constantly have the nervous feeling. Can someone please advise me or give me tips what to do to fix everything or save my health!!!

Answer 1

Talk to your fiancee, if he won't see reason then you're going the wrong way into that family. As long as you have him on your side then things are good but he should tell his family to pull their head in and he should be sticking up for you.

If you don't get these things  I would give the marraige serious doubts.  

Answer 2

Well it is stress related Obviously.

I suggest you consult your doctor about a more powerful anti depressant. Or try to slow down and help resolve the problem slowly.

I suggest you consult your doctor before overdosing with zanax...

Just calm down and take it step by step.  

Answer 3

I dont' know them, but it seems like you should tell them exactly what you wrote on here. Tell them that they are being selfish and need to forget about their differences just for ONE FRICKEN DAY to be there for you. Tell them about the stress they are inflicting on you and your special day!

Answer 4

dont get married make them feel guilty for ever@@@#@#@#@

Answer 5

Elope is one solution.

The other is try and get a family counselor to negotiate a solution.

For the stress the Australian Bush Flower Essences Emergency Essence fdosing 7 drops in water and shake and sip till calm.  IF after an hour there is not much difference go for Calm & Clear Essence and sip the same way.

"Australian Bush Flower Healing" by Ian White

ISBN-10: 073380

Yahoo email group discussing Australian Bush Flower Essences

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/ABF...

Answer 6

Clearly, this is a very stressful time for you... For people to drop out of the bridal party is pretty intense.  I would try to each out one more time and see if the 2 bridesmaids would like to be in your wedding and put aside their issues for your sake.  If not, try to find 2 more girls...

I would try to explain to your fiance's family that you have tried to get everyone on the same page but it is not working and you have enough stress with the upcoming wedding so you need to focus.  

In the mean time this site may help with coping with the stress:

http://www.stayhitched.com/stress.htm

Everything will come together and work out fine, just try and stay positive :)