Please give me an idea what should i do

Question

my husband has 2 kids aged 14 and 12.We have a baby of 4 months.since the baby is born,i have seen that he does not pay attention to her.When i ask him to change or take care of the baby,he is always very angry.But what disturb me a lot is that he is completely different with his kids.He can do anything for them.I'm very stressed and sad the way he treats our baby.when we discuss he said he does not want to hear or say anything.last week he even slapped the baby because she was crying a lot.And he said it was a small slap.I don't know what to do in this situation.I want to leave him but im afraid cause i don't have a work.I am also in a new country where i don't know the language or rules.I also don't have any family or friend here with whom i can talk.

Answer 1

don't allow him to be like this any longer, you must not let him abuse your baby. call the police now and ask them for advice, your baby is the most important thing now, not him or you or his 2 kids. call women's aid, 0808 2000 247. you'll get every bit of help you'll ever need from them, do it now before things get worse. the uk is a good country and no.one will make it worse for you if you need help. good luck and give all my love and best wishes to your baby. xxxxx

Answer 2

call victim supoport and police it child abuse pls pls leave try to go bk to yr family

Answer 3

Hi can you not talk to a relative and get sorted on your feet and then leave him , there is no excuse to slap a baby at all , just you deal with the baby things and you look after you baby, I wouldnt let him no where near your baby, ring a relative and ask if you can stay with them and then get away. Your husband sounds like he need to see someone for help thinking he can slap and 4 month old baby what is he thinking.

If you dont have a phone to ring your relative and friend maybe write to them and tell them to get in touch etc