Hi-
I have an 8 week old baby girl and I feel like I am doing all the work. My fiance does not really help me with her at all. The little things he does do he complains about them and argues with me before he does do them. He even argues with me about feeding the baby- which he rarely ever does b/c I breastfeed her. I started school this week and I have a full time schedule (all on-line). Right now I asked him to please watch the baby b/c I need to do homework and he told me no! He is still sleeping right now (9:30am) - he does not have a job (we live w/ his mom and have been for 4 months now!)- and when he does wake up around noon all he is going to do is play Counter Strike on his computer. I am not exaggerating when I say that he plays that game for 10 hours plus a day. He said that he does not support me right now about my decision of going to school. He said that I should have waited until next semester if I could not handle it. He says "oh well" and does nothing more, but go back to sleep. I feel really hurt by this and thankfully I have my parents that live close by to help me, but I think that he should be the one to help me before my parents--especially since he is not working right now and hasn't been for 5 months!! I mean I would understand if he had to go to work, but he doesn't!! I am to the point where I don't really care about our relationship and I am definitely out of love with him. The only thing that is holding me back is our baby. He says that if I leave he will call the police on me and say that I kidnapped our daughter. He also said that he would get full custody b/c he will soon have a job and I will not be working--meaning that since he will have an income he will automatically be awarded custody. I am not sure what to do about this situation... I guess I am just afraid to leave b/c I think that he will take my baby away. BY the way he smokes weed and hardly spends time with his daughter maybe 10-15 min per day if THAT!
Can someone please give me some good advice?!?
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