Please help, im freaking out?

Question

kay im starting highschool on tuesday..

but its not that im worried about.

in the beginging of grade 8 i transferred schools because of these 5 girls who made my life h**l. they turned basicly the whole school agaisnt me/

theres more to it then that but it ended with me attempting suicide.

so ive changed alot this year, i used to be SUCH a pushover and very quiet but now no one intimidates me..

well, except for them. i dont know why but i just get soso nervous thinking about seeing them. the orientation for my highschool is tomorrow and there all going and im even scared to go to that!

like right now i really feel like im about to cry.

i just dont know what to do,

i dont even know why i feel like this!

UGH

help please :(

Answer 1

you shouldnt fear any one but the people who bought you into this world. they will keep messing with you as long as they know your afraid. the same way your not afraid of anyone else you need to pretend there just like everyone else

Answer 2

exactly what the first person said.

hopefully they changed. if not, dont talk to them.

if they continue to harass you, get your friends, and if theyre true friends they will defend you.

just say something like "you better leave me the h**l alone, cos if you dont, i promise to god, it wont be like last time. i wont shut my mouth and walk away and let you get what you want."

and walk away.

if they continue, im sorry but im a real highschooler and i have the power in my highschool.. and telling on them doesnt really work. you can try but eh

what i say is : make sure to be nice to EVERYONE but them.

everyone. say nice things but tell them the whole story of what they did to you. dont make yoruself sound like too much of the victim thoguh, others will catch on and think youre lame.

once your friends and classmates realize how much of mean losers they are, they will get hated on and will stop whatever theyre doing.

just remember never to snap and always keep your cool but never give in to them.

Answer 3

High school is a big place. I remember me worrying about how people (who made my life h**l) will treat me when I enter high school.

Turns out, some of them were nice. I'm friends with someone who once made me cry. And most of my arch nemesis weren't in my class.

There's this one guy in one my class who flat out told me that he didn't like me. You know what I said? I said, you know what? I don't like you neither. We have so much in common. And I left it at that.

And to deal with those girls? Just stick close to friends who will support you through everything. Don't worry! You'll get through it! i have faith in you!

Answer 4

I know where your coming from...I was in your situation...and the best advice I could give you is to not be intimidated by them...they probably scared when they aren't together.Don't show them that your scared or even nervous...act hard...and not to get you even more nervous but you might have to throw down with one just to get them to all leave you alone if it accurse again, but I garrantee after you do you feel hella good. And of course you feel scared...look what they put you through, but look at it this way...it took 5 of them to take you down...don't trip and don't stress it...

Answer 5

Okay, I'm glad you're hopefully over your suicide phase, but relax! Take a deep breath, and stay calm. High school is a big but wonderful new transition that helps you to meet tons of new people and make new friends! Join a club or a sport to help you meet some people. You should definitely try a new sport like I did freshman year. At my school, they don't cut freshmen so I had nothing to lose by trying out and I met lots of cool new people who shared a common interest.

Don't worry about these other girls; truth be told, EVERY high school is going to have drama and girls who are just plain cruel. Just hold your head high and ignore them all.

High school gives you a clean new slate to start over, so smile, stand up straight, and be confident on your first day! Things will turn out fine :)

Good luck!

Answer 6

DON'T WORRY SWEETIE, I HVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES BEFORE.

I USE TO LET PEOPLE RUN ALL OVER ME, BUT NOT ANYMORE.

I REALLY HAVE CHANGED, TAKE UP FOR YOURSELF, AND BE

YOURSELF, YOU CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN, I DID, LOT'S OFLUCK.

Answer 7

Well, try avoiding them. If you can't get a friend to come with you.

If they start talking to you. Cut through and say "oh my isn't it you guys and ur bad *** crew." or something like dat.

Just diss em or something

When school starts, don't worry. High school is huge.

Answer 8

Girl you better get some balls.  Hey don't let anyone take your pride, joy, and value of life from you.  Give as good as you get and even more. What ever they do, you do it back. They are only people.