Please help,personal problem that nees public's view!?

Question

i always use bus to get to my workplace since 2 years ago.at that time i saw this girl,who really 'disturbing' my sleep since the first day i saw her.then i made plan to talk to her,but she avoids me.according to her friends,she dislike talking to boys due to some reasons.then after a few month i started a relationship with my now-lover.we really leading a very lovely life.but even though how lovely it is,i can't forget the bus girl!her quiet character and cold character really attracts me greatly.and i often think about her than my own lover.until now i feel like want to talk to her,and sometimes she comes in my dream as my lover!but if my lover know about that she will be heart broken.please tell me what should i do???

Answer 1

If U were really so engrossed & interested in her ....maybe she's the type to be sure n definite...no risk taking......in such a case, U could have paid a visit to her house & called on her, infront of her parents/relatives...whoever she's living with, & introduced your'self as a good friend of hers....& u always travel togther, so U've come over to just say hai to her  & other famely members.....& see her response to her relatives vizaviz U & towards U.............  

However, it's now too late to walk on this chapter without consiquences.

So, seriously & honestly assess your present relationship......which I presume is Good ( there is no gurantee of the other issue that is hounting U)

It's a case of...."either U keep it or break it."

If U want to explore possibilities, U first must be clear......'cause she may not cotton to two-timing fickle-minded double-crossing selfish

self-centered narrow-minded nincompoop !  

Answer 2

dont we always want what we cant have? Put simply get over it! She's obviously not interested and you'll omly break your gf's heart.

Answer 3

Take a different bus and leave her alone

Answer 4

you know, men in general have no love; they have lust only, which they think as love. A man will dream of all girls he sees in the bus, road, office, theatre and whetever he goes. So your case is no exception; you want to have your sexual satisfaction; that is only the reason you are looking for other girls. A man sole duty is to procreate that is why he is lustful and look for all girls. This is an impossible dream, so just live with the present one and don't go for the green pastures on the other side of the river.