Please help - Does this pass for BLACK TIE?

Question

I'm going on my first cruise on Saturday, and only last night did my partner tell me I need a black tie outfit - I could have killed him.

Now, I don't even have enough money to eat right now, so I can't buy an outfit. I'm also two sizes larger than I normally am, so none of my cocktail dresses fit me.

So I'm going through my wardrobe, seeing what I do have. Can you tell me if this would look okay? Otherwise perhaps you could suggest something else I might have?

This top - http://www.marksandspencer.com/gp/product/B000WGTDSM/ref=pd_sbs_1/202-3109634-3027050?ie=UTF8&mnSBrand=core

with a knee-length skirt like this - http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/images/co/collection-debenhams-black-pinstripe-tailored-pencil-skirt.jpg

with a cream pashmina like the woman has in this photo - http://daisyshop.com/adminnew/pics_products/UngaroDressSaK7&WhiteSatinShawlF0102.jpg

Answer 1

Yes I think that would do, it looks fine to me. If you don't have any money, how are you going on a cruise? well have fun.

Answer 2

The third would be the best for a black tie event or dinner.

Answer 3

yeah you'll be fine.  Only wear the shawl if the event is going into evening.

As long as you are comfortable and hold yourself well.  You could show up in a blue ruffled 80's tuxedo and be the hit of the party.

I hate black tie affairs.

Answer 4

If it's black tie then if you wore that you'd be a bit under-dressed...you want an actual gown/dress that's long...

Answer 5

yes.

Answer 6

i think the top and the skirt would look best without the pashima. i think you should play them up with some red pumps, some pearls, rep lipstick a slick up do for a classic and romantic look that should really look great on the cruise ship. i think it would add a audrey hepburn feel or a jackie o kind of classic beauty that looks good no matter what. hope this helps! and have a great time on the cruise