Please help... I'm so mad and I don't know what to do ?

Question

Okay so i'm gonna try to keep this short. But thanks in advance for reading!

My bf and I broke up on the 3rd of this month. On that very day my aunt came over (not my real aunt I've just known her since I was born) She lives in Arizona and was visiting and staying at my mom's. I lived with my bf but when we broke up I moved back in with my mom. So my aunt comes over at like 6pm that night and brings one of her daughters who lives in lake elsenor (not with her lol) that I have never met before. She is 18 and i'm crying off by myself cuz i'm sad about the break up and she comes over and starts talking to me. She made me feel way better. Immediately we became really good friends. She stayed for like 4-5 days. And we were so close. Told each other like almost everything. (I was 17) Then she went home, me and my bf worked it out and are dating again but I still live with my mom and she came back for a few days, then went home. Then she came down the 22nd of this month (My 18th bday) And my aunt invited some of her friends for a bbq and i had some of mine... It was a lot of fun.

Then 2 nights later I slept over at my bf's and my 22 year old brother who I haven't talked to in 3 years cuz we got in a big fight came over. She was there and she met him. He left that night and the next morning I went home and she told me they talked about me and he said he wished I would have come home so we could talk. Well believe it or not he came over that afternoon at about 2 and we talked and it was like old times. (thanks to her)

He stayed till like 4 or so and then went to his apartment, but said he'd be back. After he left she told me she kinda liked him and it was obvious he liked her too. He had asked her out to dinner that night and she asked me if I would mine since I was her friend and that was my brother. I said I didn't mind. So They went out and I went to my bf's cuz she spent the night at my bro's apartment but they didn't do anything like that... she told me.

Then the next day she hung out with him for a lil then went home to elsenor and my mom and aunt Wendy went to Arizona. So I'm staying with my bf while my mom is gone cuz I don't like being home alone...

So she texts me yesterday saying oh your brother picked me up and I wanna see you! (we live a good 30-45 mins from lake elsenor) I text her back and said what time cuz i made plans to see a movie tonight with my bf. She got all mad ans was like what the h**l Taryn I said i wanted to see you! But I wasn't just going to cancel my movie plans to see her. I didn't even know she was down here till she was already down here! So I said we could before or after. She never text. Then hours later she texts saying she's on her way to my house with my brother. She knows i'm not there. (my mom just got this new pool table so they were going over there to play pool and most likely drink)

So I text her and asked how long she's staying... No answer. an hour later I said Fine ignore me... (in a text) no answer again!

So then my mom who is in Arizona calls me (about an hour after the last text I sent my friend) and says that she talked to Joseph (my older brother) a few days ago and he said that Kristina told him EVERYTHING that I ever said to her and that my mom said. She told him about the c**p I said about his x gf that she was fat and about my bf and our problems. Personal stuff that I would only tell someone I trust. And I thought I could trust her. I was furious! But my mom said not to just text or call her and yell how mad I was because she was with my brother. But that if she asked me to hang out again to tell her I was upset.

So I did like my mom said. but I wanted her to text me cuz it bothered me SO much that she could just backstab me like that! I mean yeah we didn't know each other that long but we became good friends! And she'd only known my brother for like 3 days! So after that phone call I needed a reason to text her, hoping she'd ask to hang out so I could tell her how upset and mad I was. Then I remembered she borrowed my shirt and promised to bring it back next time she came down so I said in a text:

Did you bring my shirt back down here that you borrowed?

She never text me back. And ALL day today and the rest of last night she never text me! I know she is still with my brother right now and I want to text her. I wanna know why she did what she did and I wanna tell her that I liked her a lot and that I really thought I could trust her! (cuz I have NO girl friends or guy friends. Only my bf...)

But I don't know what to say in the text! (I wont call her it needs to be a text. please tell me what to say!! =[

Answer 1

Wow that took a while to read =p

Sounds like she is trouble! Give yourself a bit longer to completely cool down. Once you have, put your number onto private and call her and explain how betrayed you feel.

She can't ignore your texts forever especially if she is seeing your brother.

Answer 2

go and see her whenever you free..

ask your shirt, and ask her why she being such a bloody jerk..

but first of all, you can't trust anyone..anyone even the person is a girl, being nice and kind..

that's the first lesson..

hopefully you can talk over and solve your problem with this girl..

she need a lesson..

if she refused, kick and slap will do..

(^^)

Answer 3

My advice is....just leave it where it sits for now. If you really want an answer straight away...call her! Text messaging is so impersonal and a lot of things can be easily misconstruded. If you truly feel she has betrayed your trust, then she has no business being a friend, she seems to be a little manipulative and for someone who doesn't really know your family well enough, she doesnt really have much business having an opinion. Keep it up your sleeve sweety! Dont sweat too much on it for now

Answer 4

Leave her alone.  You dont' need a friend like that.  She sound psychotic.  You'd probably be better off without her in your life.

Answer 5

ok um, i can't believe i read all of it but, go to wherever she is at and slap her.

Answer 6

ufffff  

can u summarize it plz.............  

Answer 7

I think that the person you need to be talking to is your brother, not this backstabbing s***k. He needs to know what type of girl he's going out with & that she's the type of person that will betray someone in an instant as long as it benefits her.

As for this "prize", ignore her. She's not worth your time. I think that your time would be better spent trying to find other people to hang out with. I suggest taking a class or joining a local hobby group (book club, weaving, whatever). You can meet a lot of nice people to befriend there!

Answer 8

wow that was long...ignore her cuz she doesnt seem like she is worth ur trust and find some creative way to pay her back for being so trustworthy ;-) and dont just trust any old chap who shows up outa nowhere...this is why they say good friends are hard to find

Answer 9

jeez wat a b***h!!!!! i would call her. i dont understand y ur mom said dont call, thats exactly wat id do. i HATE it when my friends do that to me. but remeber, dont txt anything that you might regret l8er. there could be a good reason (but i doubt it) for what she did or whoever told u could be lying.

good luck!

Answer 10

ILL BE HONEST, I WAS GONNA READ THA STORY BUT I STOPPED WHERE IT SAID YALL BROKE UP ON AUG THA 3, MY B-DAY. GOOD NITE

Answer 11

This may sound stupid, but I would just tell her the things that you want her to tell (   I wanna know why she did what she did and I wanna tell her that I liked her a lot and that I really thought I could trust her! (cuz I have NO girl friends or guy friends. Only my bf...) It may be hard, but sometimes it's better just to say what you think. :)

Answer 12

OMG! im not reding that!!

Answer 13

i will try to read but how in gods name is this short ?  ? ?? ?  ?

Answer 14

tell her she shouldnt try and be cool in front of your brother. shes probably just trying to have an in with him (if you know what i mean) so she needed to say something to him that would make him think that she was someone he can trust...even thought he probably shouldnt trust her.  i understand that u guys became good friends really fast but honestly like you said uve only known her for a little while so its not like your losing a life-long friend or anything. u may not have any other friends but u dont want a backstabbing friends ive had plenty of those in the past and once i told them that im done with all their drama that they caused, my life has honestly been waaaayyy better. so just tell her that she shouldnt have told him the things you told her in privacy thinking you could trust her and (if u want) tell her that you dont need her in your life if shes going to be like that. idk thats what i would do or something like that. hope i helped and good luck

Answer 15

Txt her! And be so furious in the text don't give a Fu9k if she replies tell your bro to bring her here talk it out! If she don't understand then totaly SMASH her! Cuz if i were you.I wouldn't stand a chane

Answer 16

Ok you could've just asked the last part instead of the whole story! Well just say sry and if she asks y then say for watever reason i made you ignore me....and the rest should depend on wat hapend.

Answer 17

crazy woman i'm not reading dat except if u r paying me