Please help. I don’t understand why my boyfriend decided to leave me.?

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he would regret it in twenty years if he didn’t. I go out of my way to please him in any other way he might request. So why did he leave me when we haven’t even been arguing?

Answer 1

maybe his parents/friends made him do it?

or maybe he was just using you cause you were going out of your way to please him?

idk but he's not worth your time if he's gonna be like that

you should probably just forget about him

i'm very sorry though

Answer 2

he left u so u better move on in your life.  u deserved smthng better and thats gud that he himself left u.  celebrate this n try to b happy. u wont feel good for 2-3 days but this is how it goes.  today ther is no guarantee that a relationship is going to work or not so better b urself.  calm down. veg out being at home or do somthng which u like there is nothng to cry over split milk.

Answer 3

he sounds like an *** you are better off without him

Answer 4

Sometimes people aren’t meant to be together. You can do everything for him but it isn’t going to change how he feels about being in a relationship with you. Doing things for him and being subservient to him isn’t going to make him love you. He probably just can’t see himself in a long term relationship or marriage with you and he made a decision to break it off.

Stop thinking it is something that you did or didn’t do that caused the breakup. It isn’t anything you did or didn’t do; he simply doesn’t see you as a long term relationship partner. That doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you; it just means you don’t match with him.

In your next relationship remember that pleasing your partner is not a terrible thing, but it will never make someone truly love you.

Answer 5

I can only say i'm really Sorry to hear that. Hope you soon find another arms and chest you can rest your head on.

Cheers:)

Answer 6

a) he doesn't love you and feels he could never love you and the relationship was more friendship....

b) he wants to have a life before settling down i.e. dating... being single etc

or c) he may just like someone else

No matter what you do for someone it's quite poss to fall out of like/love and arguments actually help relationships... they are even often needed to forge stronger bonds

Answer 7

I will answer the best I can. Men don't like to be too crowded. I understand you did everything to please him. That's good. Doing to much pleasing can be a problem. A guy wants to feel like a guy and want a little kick in the relationship. It ok to argue a little cause that keeps the relationship exciting. He could have been a little bored. Then don't blame yourself. You live and you learn and also he isn't the only guy out here. It will hurt for a little bit but you will get over it. I hope this will help.  

Answer 8

he must have some ambition in his life he needs to go after and he can't do it if he's in a relationship.

i'm very sorry.

Answer 9

Sounds like he wasn't in love with you and it wasn't going to happen for him.  Sometimes that just happens.  At least he did it now instead of waiting... it hurts more the longer things go.  I am sure you can find another... just hang in there...

Good luck!

:)

Answer 10

Oh, so the story continues. He probably wasn't even your boyfriend.