Please help! I feel like I'm being used or am I wrong?

Question

I've been seeing this guy for not that long. I came to his house sometimes, met his family. He''s umm a horny guy. He wants me to be turn on and loves to touch my body. basically everywhere of my body parts he had touched before. at times when we talk on the phone at night, he asked me to come over to his house to sleep with him.

One of the day, I came to his house when his family is on a short trip. we made out, soon we were pantless. It almost leads to s*x, then he asked me to come downstairs and watch a movie instead...when he couldn't have got me at that moment. Another time when we met up, we had s*x for about a few mins. He bail out again and went downstairs. He told me that he's confused and needs times to think.

I'm really confused. Does he really like me or is he only after one thing? Or is he playing my mind all along to make me believe in him and trust him?

-THANKYOU!

Answer 1

It sounds like you're not sure if you want to be having s*x. And it also sounds like he's not sure either.

I don't know if he's using you.

Have you considered talking to him about this and actually asking him about it?

This might actually get you an answer.

Answer 2

i don't know that he's using you.  it just sounds like you two are jumping the gun on the physical part of your relationship.  know what i mean?

Answer 3

Something definitely ain't right here, but I'm not exactly sure what...

Remember, hon - he can only do what you let him.

It seems that you have serious doubts about this guy (sounds like you should, btw), so maybe you should try a non-physical relationship for a while and see who this guy REALLY is!

best of luck

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