Please help!!! I feel like sh*t. Sorry it's long?

Question

Lately, things have been looking pretty bad. I've missed some work b/c of illness & trying to gt stuff done for school. I'm in college and about to start in a month. I did take off tommorrow b/c of a doc's app. but I have decided to go when it's done and work the full shift. I think I've messed up things at work now. I feel like c**p. I don't have any friends. 2/3 of the summer has gone by and ppl haven't contacted me. This is a testimony to my life. Some of my fam have stopped talking to me b/c of stuff that has nothing to do with me. My bff? has been treating me like dirt. I'm 21 & don't drink (my mom's an alcholic) I strongly considered getting drunk yesterday to take away the pain. I have nothing to offer. Lately, I've been so irresponsible. I'm on meds & going to therapy. I feel guilty and sad. I feel srry for myself & want others to as well. I know that's awful; I hate that. It's so much going on right now, and I want the world to tell me I'm sh*t; it's becoming a hobby/trend.

Answer 1

Everyone goes through rough patches, granted, some worse than others. It sounds like things are going pretty badly for you right now. My advice is to look at the big picture. Whatever you think you messed up at work is probably not that big of a deal. Most likely, no one will remember it happened in a couple of days or so. As for your friends, have you contacted them? They may be thinking the same thing about you-- that you don't care because you haven't contacted them. As for your bff, ditch him/her if he is being an a*****e. You're starting college in a month-- that's a great opportunity to meet new friends who actually care about you. Think of it as turning over a new leaf, starting fresh.

Answer 2

Well first off, you're 21 and in college. Good for you and you're on your way to greatness if you want to. You have time to smooth things out to get checked at the doc. I recommend asking him for a psyche to talk to while your young cus it does get harder as you get older, trust me.

After that, you can weed out all the bad things goin bad in your life like that knucklehead bf of yours who IC in your post has no positive impact on your life right now. Do you really need him?

Good thing you didnt drink, I did and it brought me h**l all through my twenties, but in your case that tells me you have a very strong will to live without without all the drama and not feel sorry for yourself even though you say you do.

Keep your chin up!

Trust me, things aren't really as bad as they seem.

Answer 3

You have to talk to your friends and family. You really have to talk to your best friend about what he is doing to you. Being drunk will not do you any good. "While there is life, there is hope". Be happy and relax. And do not us any "Bad Words " about yourself, those words are going to make things really worse.

Answer 4

see a doctor

Answer 5

Just Hang in there, brother

i guess evreyone goes through that phase in life, feeling alike absolute sh*t...kinda like a quarter life crysis.

Remember good time are just around the corner, its just that that corner seems very far away right now...and bad times cannot last forvever...

PS..please dont care about people who treat you like dirt..you'd probably be better off alone than being with them..

take care!!

Answer 6

I'm sorry that you are going through tough times. Don't give up it'll get better.

Answer 7

Everyone goes through rough patches, granted, some worse than others.  It sounds like things are going pretty badly for you right now.  My advice is to look at the big picture.  Whatever you think you messed up at work is probably not that big of a deal.  Most likely, no one will remember it happened in a couple of days or so.  As for your friends, have you contacted them? They may be thinking the same thing about you-- that you don't care because you haven't contacted them.  As for your bff, ditch him/her if he is being an a*****e.  You're starting college in a month-- that's a great opportunity to meet new friends who actually care about you. Think of it as turning over a new leaf, starting fresh.