Please help... I think my family is over....

Question

My boyfriend plays rpg games all the time. and we have two kids, a 18 monh old and a 2 month old... he seems to hate me, and he tells me he hates me all the time, all he does is work (4 hours a day) and play rpg games. He stays up all hours of the night and sleeps in every morning. I am a sahm, I told him he helps with daycare, I will work, but he says it's my job to find daycare, alone. if I move out my kids wont get child support because he works under the table. we fight every day......

what do I do???

Answer 1

You don't need to live like that...get to a shelter if you have no family to lean on...he is a jerk...

Answer 2

Tell him to hit the road.  You can take him to court and get him ordered to pay child support.  Even if he doesn't want to get a job.  That will be up to him.  An order of child support will never go away.  It will keep accruing and accruing.  His decision not to pay support will do nothing but ruin his whole future.  Life is not all about RPG games.  He needs to grow up.

You might have to work a little harder at it, but the way it sounds, you are already working hard.  There are programs out there that can help with day care.

Answer 3

leave him forget about child support if you think this will continue move to a friends house or some thing

Answer 4

tell him straight up that ur gonna leave him he will want you back as he will have no life playing rpg games without a wife and kids the only thing he will be with is his controller

Answer 5

hun, you need to break it off with him NOW. He shouldn't be treating you like that. Take your kids and leave. Go to your parents house, friends house, go to a church and ask for help, seriously they do help out people in need, get a divorce, just get your childeren as far AWAY from your boyfriend as possible. If you don't leave now something worse will happen soon.

please, take care and good luck

Answer 6

You need to break this off for the sake of your kids, and get this guy completely out of your life until he grows up himself.  It's too bad they won't have a father-figure but this guy is too immature to raise kids.  Get involved at church and other places where you can meet a good, responsible man,  and even if you don't wind up in a relationship, where your kids can find a good male role model.   Good luck.  

Answer 7

get a divorce you cant live like that

Answer 8

What an awful situation you've gotten yourself into.  Those poor children.  He "works under the table"?  What does that mean?  Crime?  You need counseling desperately.  Something is seriously wrong with this situation.  How many baby mama's does he have?  Does he hit you too?  You need to get out of this situation for sure but you need help from people you can see and touch, not Yahoo.  Maybe a crisis center for women?