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So im 16 years old, and i recently split frommy long term boyfriend of a year and a half, we where so close, best friends and nothing could come between us, I had been really il over the last year or so with a eating disorder and i sturggled to cope with it, but my ex stuck by me through it no matter what he was great to me coudnt ask for more. towards the end of may we was going through a rough patch and he decied to leave me he told me hehad fallen out of love with me, which is fair enough even though i am feeling so much pain right now, and i miss him beyond belief and cant do anything or imagen him having anyone else in his life, I feel hearbroken beyond belief. Two weeks after we split up i found out i was pregnant with him, So i decided to tell him alot went on between us he told me he wasnt going to be there if i have it, as he didnt want it and if i had an abortion he would support me. i then had to tell his parents they took it ok at the first when i told they i possible was going to have an abortion, When i told them i was keeping it everything changed and they where mad and stopped all contact, lately things have gone so wrong i feel like killing myself to be honest i feel alful inside, i had a misscarriage a week ago and am struggling to cope, I text my ex and told him and he never answered me, We only live 2 mins around the corner and he is best mates with my brother ( Who isnt being very loyal ) So i see my ex all the time. Plus now i have had a huge arguement with my dad ( Who is sperated from my mum ) Because he thinks i lied about everything because i never wanted him to come to the docs with me because i was scared of letting him come with me because i was ashamed, And everyone in that house thinks im lieing, im at then end all my friends have abandonded me and i dont now what to do.

Due to my brother and my ex being best mates my ex will come to pick my brother up in his car everything i see him pull up i feel sick, He never comes in the house but it hurts and i start shaking and break down, Iv told my mum and she says just get over it!! move on.. i simply cant, Everytime i see a baby my world caves in i feel alful, i have no-one there, or onone that cares, I hate the thought all my exs family hate me, I just wanted them to support me through im at the end i dont know what to do, I just want someone to talk to..

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  1. I am assuming you went to a hospital to deal with your miscarriage.?  Show whom ever does not believe you the bill from there and tell them to cram it..

    as for the ex.  The only advise I can give you is time.. let is make you feel bad for a moment and then yes, like you mom said you will have to get over it.  DO NOT let it take over your life..

    YES, you loved and love him but he nor any man should take over your life so much in that way that you do not want to live if they are gone..


  2. wow honey i feel your pain. well i've never been thru anything like this. but im a girl. and i know how it can be sometimes. its probably hurting you alot right now, but dont worry, Allah will make everything better one day. you just have to be patient. even if you're family is not supporting you. but you have to be the strong one. dont let anything or anyone bring you down. hold your head up high. there's alot of ppl like you out there. you're not the only one. so just hang in there girl

    ♥ Edward Cullen

  3. yeah, life goes on....if he dosent want to talk to you. dont bother he isnt that good of a person then.

    why would your brother be friends with him if he knocked you up? how old is he?

    sorry for ur baby, but maybe it happend for a reason in gods choice that ur not ready and you learnt from your mistake.

    dont do anything stuid by killing urslef..people go though alot more in life then this so i say dont, get married and have a baby one day. talk to some girl friends to at school

  4. I really feel for you. Not only has your relationship ended but you have lost a baby. What you need to remember is that even though your ex-boyfriend supported you through your illness, as soon as you told him you was pregnant he turned. Maybe he wasn't the person you thought he was. And now you feel everyone is against you. You say your mum has told you to move on but does she really know how bad you feel? Even though you are only 16 you are experiencing feelings of not only an adult but of someone who was going to be a mother. She is probably a little relieved that you had the miscarriage because it made your mind up for you. As for your friends, you dont say why they have abandoned you but have they really? It could just be that you are feeling so low it seems like that. If it's hard for you to tell people how you feel write them a letter. Also i think you should see your doctor and see about some sort of councelling. What you have been through is terrible and the people around you should see that.

  5. please stop asking the same question you wont get any new answers

  6. Awh.

    :(

  7. it sounds like you need a hug.

    really, if i could hug you through the computer, i so would.

    I feel terrible for you, I hope things start looking up for you.

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