Please help !!!! My boyfriend wants a 3some. WHY???

Question

Please help !!!! My boyfriend wants a 3some. WHY???

Answer 1

A 3some is dangerous for a relationship...nothing good will come out of this unless both are into this type of thing...for me a 3some sounds hot, but i'm not in a relationship...a 3some is for people who are not too interested in a relationship and both want to feel the excitement, so even if it is disastrous for the relationship, it didn't really matter...Like I said, this has to be something both people want!

Answer 2

its cuz every guys fantasy is to have 2 girls satisfy his needs at once... double your pleasure double your fun...lol  if your uncomfortable just tell him. But honestly the last 5 guys i have been with have brought the 3some talk up someway or another. I personally just dont like sharing my man.

Answer 3

cause its amazing, why dont you both find a person that you can feel comfortable with and try it out, if not tell him only in his dreams haha

Answer 4

Tell him only if you can have one with two guys!

j/k maybe

Seriously though, ask him why, it can be a number of reasons

Wants to experiment/ try out fantasies of you with a girl

Wants two s**y girls at once

Selfish, wants two girls to please him

Libido that he can please two girls at once

There's nothing wrong with you or the relationship just because of this, so don't feel you aren't pleasing him or he is bored. It is not that. It is really common for guys to want this.

Answer 5

He wants to try something new.

Answer 6

For him, it's adding spice to your s*x life.  But if I really love the guy, I wouldn't go for that.  It will raise some questions in my mind about his fidelity!

Answer 7

You really are asking the wrong people...you should be asking him.  Some people enjoy having multiple partners. Polyamoury is a growing form of a relationship.  And if all members of the partnership are agreeable to the relationship...what's wrong with it?

Answer 8

there is no why. that is what all guys want, a threesome with two hot s**y girls pleasing him in bed.

Don't point the blame to yourself when it his erotic fantasy takes the blame.  

Answer 9

I think its maybe weird for you but its always good to try different things. but if your not up for it don't do it .

Answer 10

There are lots of different reasons he might want a threesome and the only way you're going to know is to ask him!

Ask him why if you don't want one then just tell him so.

Answer 11

It appears the best person to ask would be...your boyfriend.  If you don't want to do it, just say "No".  You can have a discussion about what it means later.

Answer 12

  Maybe its a turn on 4 him

tell him if u dont wanna and dont feel forced 2 do nething u dont wanna

Answer 13

he wants to experiment. if you dont like it tell him so!

Answer 14

Think seriously

Decide seriously.

Answer 15

most guys r selfish in bed. this is a double standard if you allow it he may want it all the time ,if not he may cheat on you you cant win either way.