Please help! Virgin, Can't have s*x?

Question

I'm trying to have s*x with my boyfriend, but he is big ( meaning in width, it's fat and thick) and I'm a virgin and pretty little down there. Anyways, we tried a few times but when I put it in my vaginal opening it hurts a lot! The last time I put it in a little I bled a lot and it lasted for a day or so, is this normal? so my question is, how can his p***s go inside me without hurting me so much and how can I stretch my hole so it won't hurt as much even with lubrication, any positions, ideas it will really help! I feel so frustrated!

Answer 1

use a cucumber

Answer 2

oooo girl he popped yo cherry but um jus practice wit sumthing a lil bigger than his p***s and try to do it alot so u can get use to it.

Answer 3

practice with a banana?  

Answer 4

pleasure will take over pain. trust me, if you have a "big" boyfriend, then your lucky. but maybe if he put it in sideways...

Answer 5

let him finger u first and relax!!! when i had s*x for the first time with my bf he's big too and i was scared it was going to hurt like h**l but it didn't at all i barely bled to it last five mins u just need to find that comfortable place or try foreplay don't jump right into s*x me and my boyfriend didn't jump into it because i wasn't ready then when i was comfortable enough we did it and it was great so just take your time if ur stressing about him entering u then you'll never do it..people are different and it's going to hurt a  bit just relax your body and enjoy the moment..goodluck!

Answer 6

When u guys do it get on top and him on bottom that way he will like it and it won't hurt u as much with u controlling how far  u guys go. Or make out a lot before u do something.