Please help! We grew up together...and now this..?

Question

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:42:19 AM): yeaa . im not on right now but ill go afterr . im looooking up water parks for me & my friends

SyMoNe235 (9:42:29 AM): oh ok

SyMoNe235 (9:44:42 AM): i saw sandra in shop rite

SyMoNe235 (9:44:52 AM): nd samaiya in mandee's

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:51:06 AM): holllld uppp & cooool

SyMoNe235 (9:51:18 AM): me?

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:51:42 AM): it meanns holld onn & im backk anyways

SyMoNe235 (9:51:58 AM): ok

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:52:24 AM): mhmmm

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:52:31 AM): brb

SyMoNe235 (9:52:38 AM): ok

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:53:51 AM): kayy backk ( ;

SyMoNe235 (9:53:56 AM): k

SyMoNe235 (9:54:10 AM): guess wat?

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:54:20 AM): what?

SyMoNe235 (9:54:30 AM): im getting bangs

SyMoNe235 (9:54:40 AM): wait is today friday?

SyMoNe235 (9:54:48 AM): cuz im getting bangs friday

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:54:55 AM): noo thursdayy

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:54:59 AM): annd ohh cool

SyMoNe235 (9:55:13 AM): o0o

SyMoNe235 (9:58:13 AM): so0o um wats up?

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (9:58:51 AM): ummm nmmmm yuuu "?

SyMoNe235 (9:59:03 AM): same

SyMoNe235 (10:00:16 AM): cnt wait for school

SyMoNe235 (10:00:24 AM): i get to edit the newspaper

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:00:30 AM): oh cool

SyMoNe235 (10:01:15 AM): then my parents r gunna decide if i can get another myspacee . soon

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:01:35 AM): ohh cool

SyMoNe235 (10:01:57 AM): hows ur summer been ?

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:02:31 AM): amazinqqq yuu ?

SyMoNe235 (10:02:41 AM): mine is ok i guess

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:02:59 AM): ohh

SyMoNe235 (10:03:02 AM): everyone i used to be close with idk..anymore

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:03:10 AM): ohh whyy ?

SyMoNe235 (10:03:30 AM): idk...ever since i deleted my myspace...ppl have changedd..idk y

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:03:43 AM): ohh

SyMoNe235 (10:04:24 AM): its different from 5th grade i guess

SyMoNe235 (10:04:30 AM): 6th grade was alrite

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:04:51 AM): yea i think 7th is gonna be bettter

SyMoNe235 (10:04:58 AM): hopefully

SyMoNe235 (10:05:07 AM): yuu going out for soccer?

SyMoNe235 (10:05:14 AM): with kms?

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:05:17 AM): yessssir yu ?

SyMoNe235 (10:05:21 AM): yea

SyMoNe235 (10:10:47 AM): i wanna go to burnet

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:11:02 AM): why ?

SyMoNe235 (10:11:11 AM): kms sucks and the ppl in it

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:11:29 AM): ummm alrighht not reallly but w.e yu think .

SyMoNe235 (10:11:40 AM): not yuu other ppl

SOCCERPRiNCESSS2 (10:12:19 AM): 0okaaay but no it doesnnt ;.. maybe some certain pppll but not the schoool . pppl make it badddder & sound worse then it is .

SyMoNe235 (10:12:47 AM): ppl change

this girl and i grew up together...ever since i deleted my myspace...ppl have changed. she used to be shy and quiet...i don't know her anymore...

Answer 1

Mm....Try getting her attention first and I get what your saying. I'm defiitely like that girl cuz I used to be shy but now, I'M HUNGRY FOR POPULARITY!!!! Maybe she is too. Try making new friends and tell her how you feel.

Answer 2

She said it best: People change. There's no real tragedy there, just a reflection of different sensibilities that people get over time. Yours will change too soon enough. Don't worry. Have a nice day.

Answer 3

From the conversation above I'm guessing that you're about 12 or 13.  This is a tough time for a girl.  You and all your friends are starting to become young women.  Your bodies are changing, your emotions are becoming stronger, your hormones are flowing full force.  All these put together change a person.  None of you will stay as you were as children.  Some of your friends will quit talking to you.  Others may stop being your friend, then later on, become your friend again.  You will also find new friends who are going through similar times.  It's all normal and part of growing up.  Everyone one of us went through it.  The key to making it through the easiest is finding people you trust and talking to them.  This can be your parents, siblings, teacher, neighbor, relative, etc.  It's important to have someone you can really trust to share your feelings and concerns with.  You'll get through it though.