Yesterday, I went to therapy. My therapist & I just met a few weeks ago, so we're still sort of new to each other. I told her I feel that I am one of the six toxic friend types--- the needy/playing the victim type. She told me she didn't see me that way although our relationship is different from others that I have. She said that there's a difference between being needy and having needs that weren't met as a child (I'm 21). She said also that the needy type doesn't care about anyone else, but themselves and their needs and I'm very sensitive to others needs. She said I seemed more avoidant than needy. She said if that's what I thought we should definitely take it into consideration, that she wasn't trying to dismiss my claims. We actually discussed this for a loooong time, and I'm still confused. So was she trying to tell me in a nice way that I'm needy but I have "legitimate" reasons? Please help!!!! What was she saying? Also, she never did cover the playing the victim part? Why?
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