Please help!!! Why is my wife mad at me? And how do I fix it?

Question

We were watching a movie and there was a s*x part so naturally i got a little hard. She felt it just to see and she got enraged! it just blindsided me. she started slapping me and yelling saying I shouldn't get turned on for that. I have no idea of what to say and how to fix it. someone please help!!!!!!!

Answer 1

For 1 she has a abusive disorder and should not hit you for anything.

Hitting is wrong and so is yelling at you that to show she is abusive.

Why are you even with her and I think you better leave her never mind worrying about watch a movie with her.You can't fix her any other wife would have joined you in making love she is abusive do you really want to live with that and believe me it will get worst for you.

You don't need help she does.

The only thing you can do is tell her if she ever hit you again and she will coz them kind of people are control freaks and you could have charged her for abuse.Now if you give into her  abuse  then sorry you

till you find your own place away from her. Hon no one has the right to hit and yell at anyone that is called abuse,  

Answer 2

its probably jealousy.

tell her your a man, and have ... with her.

Answer 3

sounds as if she is jealous

Answer 4

Because there is only one woman in her mind that should turn you on....

and that is her. no one else.  

Answer 5

Tell her that the male is turned on visually and are different to females in this area and leave it at that. She does sound immature or has a sever low self esteem.

Answer 6

Oh, wow, what a whack job your wife is. Talking about insecurities and low self esteem. You should have told her smth to put her back in her place, wtf, tell her to get some self esteem.

Answer 7

tell her to lose some weight. she has low self esteem

Answer 8

I actually think she is asking you to be more dominant.  You need to kick down the door, take some rope, tie her down, and teach her not to slap you.  Show her what turns you on.

Is this question for real?

Answer 9

Step one: Grow a pair

Step two: If step one achieved you will realise that you no longer care if she is mad...let her stress over it ...not you

Step Three:  go to http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

Listen to Tom Leykis, get filthy rich and have all the women you want, let them get jelous over each other and in the end compete for your attention rather than treat you like c**p for being a man!

If you live in Los Angeles, Listen to him on 97.1... changed my life. I used to be you.

till I achieved step one

Answer 10

No need to fix it. It hit a chord with her, for sure, and I certainly got my laugh out of this. In this moment I would personally tease and tickle her to death until we were all over each other, if you get my point.

Answer 11

I do not how you can make her understand this, but she needs to realize  that men and women are sexual beings.

It is embedded in our DNA to get aroused by a sexual scene of any kind.

It is called Nature.

We are humans.

If not anything else, it shows you have a working libido.

And I do not think that your wife would prefer you to have no libido at all.

Answer 12

Get a new wife. How totally insecure of her. If she doesn't know that you  only think of her..always...yeah, right, LOL

Answer 13

First off, how long have you 2 been married.  Secondly, she shouldn't be slapping you.

I wouldn't get mad at something as trivial as that.  It does sound as if she has self-esteem issues.  Maybe you could sit down and talk about it like adults and see what is really bothering her.